Somebody needs to be the stabilizing influence in each situation as it arises. Why not you? Upon what does your own stability depend? What do you need to be dependably stable, grounded, centered, at peace within any situation that may arise, in a "Here we are. Now what?" kind of way? What do you turn to when you have nowhere to turn? How about yourself? How about turning to you, counting on you, depending on you, when everything else is going to hell all around you? How about you being the one who sees what is happening, hears what is being called for, and does what needs to be done out of your own original nature and innate virtues/specialties/qualities? What is your original nature? What are your innate virtues/specialties/ qualities? What can you count on about yourself? What is always there for you about you? What do you know to be true about you-- in a positive, helpful, creative manner? What keeps you from getting out of the way in order for that to come to life in you/through you in each situation as it arises? Who are you afraid of displeasing by being yourself? Who is keeping you from being yourself? How long has he/she been dead? We live to please ghosts. Who were incapable of being pleased with themselves or anyone else! It's time to move on. You be happy with you! Lay the ghost to rest. Finally. At last.
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Jim Dollar's Photography and Philosophy 
Deep and true. Move on!
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