
All transitions have something in common with the butterfly's exit from the chrysalis, which, you will remember, but a step in the process of its transition from caterpillar to butterfly. And is thoroughly amazing-- and not much different from our transitions through all of the stages of our own development all along the way. And it is crucial that we participate in that process as willing partners in the work of being/becoming who we are and doing what is ours to do. The process and all of its transformations are built into our DNA and into "the way of life in the world," which has been called "The Tao of life and being." We only need to relax ourselves into it and cooperate with it from stage to stage, transition to transition, trusting it to know what it is doing as a continuing and wonder-filled source of blessings and grace all along the way. We can willingly participate in the process, or we can buck and snort, resist, moan and wail throughout it. Our response to our life and the experience of being alive makes all the difference. Our attitude changes things-- for better and for worse. It is a superpower bestowed upon us all at birth. What we do with it is up to us.
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