We have to trust ourselves to respond appropriately to each situation as it arises, spontaneously, in the moment, without thinking through all the implications and possibilities, looking for the best chance of a favorable outcome with the most potential gain and the lowest likely loss. Listen to your initial inclination and decide Yes or No without going through the usual cost/benefit analysis before acting. What does it feel like needs to be done? Every time you can't decide what to do, shift over into emptiness/stillness/silence and feel what you feel, and go with that. And, if it doesn't work out so well, feel what to do about that, and go with it. "Trust your feelings, Luke!" invites intuition and instinct into the conversation. They will be happy to guide you along the way.