How satisfied (1-10, poor to great) are you with your life? How dependent on (How often do you use?) drugs and alcohol are you? How high/low is the status of your balance and harmony? The degree of your energy, spirit, vitality? The amount of joy you find in each day? The quality of the meaning you have in your life? How much heart do you have in what you do? How often you find yourself smiling for no reason throughout the day? What do you look forward to in each day? What keeps you going? What do you turn to when you have nowhere to turn? Based on your responses to these questions, how important is it that you transform your relationship with your life? If you were going to transform your relationship with your life, how would you go about doing it? How often have you transformed your relationship with your life up to this point? I find that everything flows from and leads to emptiness, stillness and silence. We only have to trust ourselves to it, do what needs to be done about it, and re-evaluate the outcomes all along the way.