
If we feel like we are nobody, we have to prove that we are somebody, by pushing somebody around who we think can't push back. Vladimir Putin comes to mind in this regard. A little man who becomes smaller by trying to look larger. There is no limit to the amount of damage he can do compensating for his deficiencies in self-concept, self-respect and self-control. And the world pays for his emotional neediness. And, there is Donald Trump, dying for somebody to love him. All the things he says about himself are things he wishes someone else would say. He will never live that long. White supremacists only wish it were so. Loaded down with weapons and vitriol because of their insecurities and vulnerabilities, they are certain everyone is out to get them, and are determined to get them first. People who belong in psych wards are making laws and wielding power and making the world increasingly unlivable on every level. What to do? Find/create your community of a small (3 to 10) group of people who are good company and well grounded and balanced, and help one another toward stability and peace by serving as sounding boards and compassionate friends to one another, doing what you can to make the world as sane and as sensible as it can be. It may be a while before the world is what we need it to be. In the meantime, we become what we need with those who can join us in the work.
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Perfect definition of toxic humanity, along with the perfect recipe for an antidote!
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