It is all up to us-- waking up, growing up, getting up and doing what needs to be done... No one can do it for us, or talk us into it. We are quite on our own. Sizing things up. Seeing what we look at. Realizing what's what and taking up the work of transforming our relationships with ourselves, our life, and other people. I highly recommend the no noise, no complexity, no drama platform, with it's no excuses, no expectations, no agenda, no plans, no opinions, no judgment, no whining, no pouting, no quitting-- just getting up and doing what needs doing moment to moment, day to day, no matter what formula. That is the path that is not discernible as a path, and is, therefore, a most reliable path, guaranteed to put things in their place, restore balance and harmony, put us in accord with the Tao, restore Yin and Yang to their proper relationship, so that all things turn out of their own center and serve the true good of the whole and its parts. Thinking there is something better than that is what got us in the mess we are in. I suggest not going there.