The way to get what you want is to not want very much and to be happy with what you have. Unending wants conflict with one another, off-set one another, cancel each other out. We cannot have this that we want because it rules out that which we also want, and we set up an endless cycle of wanting opposing wanting. We can have more of what we want by wanting less, and being very happy with the things we really want, letting the rest of it go. For this to work, we have to be self-transparent. The more self-transparently we live, the more transparent to transcendence we become, so that the light of immortality shines through us into the world, and everyone is blessed by our wanting very little and having a lot of the things we truly want-- and knowing where/when to stop wanting and simply enjoy what we have. This generates vitality, light and peace, and the world comes alive with the sound of satisfaction and good will, simply because we knew when/where to stop wanting and start enjoying what we have. We thus become a blessing and a grace upon all who come our way, simply by letting go of all the things we have no business having.