We are here to be who we are, to find and live the life that is ours to live, and to make the best of all that comes our way, while being a good, safe, place for other people to be. That's all our life asks of us. How can we screw up something as simple as that? It's A-B-C, 1-2-3, from birth to the grave. What would make it easier than it is? What are we doing that makes it harder than it is?