Our choices determine, or strongly influence, our choices. In any situation, we are where we are by virtue of the choice we made to lead to this point. We can't keep making the same choices and have a different life. What are the themes running through our choosing? In what ways are we predictable? In what situations are we likely to do what? In what situations do we make the same choices time after time? In order to change things, we start with our choices. From the movies we watch, to the things we eat, to the books we read, to the places we go, to the people we admire, to the activities we engage in... Different choices call for different ways of living. When we find ways that click for us, we have found a different way of life, by living differently.