What would it take for you to be at peace with your life just as it is? Which includes doing what it takes to make your life more like it needs to be than it is. What does your life need to be that it isn't? Where is your life deficient? Where is your life excessive? Where is your life being neglected/ignored? Where is your life being restricted/confined? Where is your life being overrun/violated/disrupted? In what ways do you need help with your life? To what degree are you aware of your relationship with your life? In what ways does your life reflect/exhibit/express/incarnate/reveal who you are? In what ways does your life inhibit/conceal/deny/oppose/repress who you are? How would you describe your relationship with your life? In what ways do you tend and serve your life? In what ways do you expect your life to tend and serve you? In what ways do you cooperate/collaborate with your life? In what ways do you contend/clash with your life? What do you need from your life? What does your life need from you?
If you wait until you are drowning to learn how to swim, you make it harder on yourself than it needs to be. See how many places you can apply this pithy little insight throughout your life. It will change your life.