February 05-A, 2023

Charlotte Skyline 08/26/2017 Oil Paint Rendered — Charlotte, North Carolina
Our response is the most important thing.

What happens to us does not matter nearly as much
as what we do in response to what happens to us.

We make responses to every situation as it arises,
and make responses to our responses,
all day long,
every day.

If we improve the quality of those responses,
we will improve the quality of our life,
and the quality of the lives of those about us.

We are quick to rate the quality of our situations,
and the quality of our days.
We generally pay no attention to the quality
of our responses.

We grumble and complain about how our life is going
and all we have to put up with
and how nothing ever goes our way,
but rarely say anything about 
how well--or poorly--
we are responding to what goes on in a day.

Forget what happens!
Focus entirely upon your response!
Attend your response
in every moment of every situation.
Facial expression,
body language,
tone of voice,
choice of words,
clarity of position in relation to what happened,
type of emotion being communicated,
position being expressed,
etc.

Attend the response to your response.
How was your response received?
What did the response to your response
center on about your response?

Thoroughly examine every aspect 
of the situation
following the initial event.

How could your initial response 
have been altered to shift/transform
everything that followed?

No defending/excusing/explaining/justifying!
Just seeing!
Just knowing!
Just understanding!
The power of your initial response 
in shaping everything that happened.

How we respond/react to an event
determines, or strongly influences,
everything that follows.

Practice having such an influence
by altering/modifying/adjusting/changing
how you respond to events that happen
throughout your day.

Begin grading your response to what happens
and your responses to the responses to your response.
Be attentive.
Be awake.
Be aware.
Be alive to the moment you are living,
and to the way you are living it.

For always and ever!

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February 04-B, 2023

Ramsey Creek 11/08/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Greenbriar District, Cosby, Tennessee
God doesn't play favorites. Doesn't have favorites.

From the beginning until now,
God's Chosen people don't come off
any better than the reprobates and scoundrels.

Even the Bible is straightforward about it:
"Time and chance happen to us all."
"It rains on the just and the unjust alike."

But we seek the advantage above all else,
and sermons through the ages
have played up the "Give To Get" line
to squeeze pennies from the poor
hoping for blessings and grace from on high.

"Give To Get" is the foundation 
of all the sacrificial and votive offerings
through the ages,
across time and place.

The idea of God needing something God cannot get
for him/her/itself
undermines the very idea of God
as infinite, eternal and almighty,
in complete control of history
and of all that happens throughout the universe.

A God who cannot be pleased
without someone pleasing him/her/it
constantly, eternally,
is no God at all. 

God as a partner with us 
in the service of the good
is a valid and lasting quality
of That Which Has Always Been Called God,
but.

It is not an absolute good,
but a temporal and impermanent good--
a cup of cold water,
a loaf of bread,
food for the hungry,
visiting the sick
and those in prison,
sandals and clothes against the elements...

Temporary good is the only kind of good
that is not offset by evil.

What is good for the lion
is evil for the antelope.
Too much sugar
works against those who consume it.

We seek the middle road,
to live in the center of the bell-shaped 
normal distribution curve,
the reasonable and customary range 
between extremes,
between Yin and Yang,
in all things.

There we find the blessing sans curse,
the good that is fully good,
but not totally good,
provisional and not everlasting.

A benefit of the way
that is truly the way,
and keeps us going for another day. 

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February 04-A, 2023

Moraine Abstract With Canoe 09/22/2009 Oil Paint Rendered — Moraine Lake, Jasper National Park, Alberta
Taking something on faith 
is having an opinion about something
with no facts or substantiating evidence
to support you
and believing in it anyway.

Faith is an opinion with no foundation
or validity.
And is the ground of all religion everywhere.

We have sacrificed animals,
children,
virgins,
limbs
and digits
based on the opinion
that the gods could be swayed
to do our will
by the pleasing odor
of burning flesh.

Opinions are the easiest things to produce
and the hardest things to squelch 
or be rid of.

At least that is my opinion,
and I take it on faith 
that it is so.

And you have an opinion
about my opinion
that you take on faith is so.

That is how opinions work.

If we were sufficiently motivated,
we could build a religion 
around our opinions.

That is how all religions come into being.
And a lot of people die
at the hands of all religions.

Human beings are a strange lot,
but that's another opinion.
There may be enough evidence 
backing it up
to make it a fact. 

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February 03-B, 2023

Wood Duck and April Woods 04/10/2013 Oil Paint Rendered — The Bog Garden, Greensboro, North Carolina
We think thinking is the living end.
That all it takes is explaining things
in ways they can be understood.
With enough of the right kind
of information
we all come together in complete agreement,
seeing the same things
in the same way,
achieving peace and harmony at last.

Reason,
logic,
analytics,
calculus,
methodology,
and The Grand Final Theory
are all we need
for everyone to be in tune,
in step
and on the way.

Let me explain.

We see things differently.
We think different things 
are important.
We like different things.
We are on different wavelengths
with different points of view
and different values,
and different tastes,
and different interests,
and are at odds with ourselves even
over what matters most
and what that means for us
at any point in our life
and we are never going to be in agreement--
within or without--
about much of anything at all.

So, forget agreement,
and dedicate yourself to the work
of "just getting along,"
as best we can.

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February 03-A, 2023

Canadian Wetlands 09/29/2009 Oil Paint Rendered — Jasper National Park, Alberta
We owe it to one another
to listen each other 
to the truth of our own being
here and now.

In order to assist you in doing that,
I've developed a list of questions
you can modify for use in your own conversations,
and ask your own follow-up questions
in order to take the conversation
in the direction of its natural direction and flow.

It is important to shift your conversations
away from the same old same old things
you always say--and are expected to say.

We go nowhere covering the same ground every day.

How's your balance and harmony?
What are the sources of destablization?
What do you do to restore your balance and harmony?
To maintain it?

What do you like to do best/enjoy doing most?
What makes your little heart sing
and your little toes dance?
How often do you do these things?
How long has it been since you have done them?

How often do you spend time in silence and solitude?
For how long each time?

Do you remember your dreams
and try to see what they might be saying 
about your life?

What is your original nature?
What is your specialty?
What are the things you are good at?
What would friends say you are good at?
What would they say are your qualities
that set you apart from others?

Where do you turn when you have nowhere to turn?
Where do you go for peace and consolation?
To get away from it all?
To recover from the past and store up for the future?

How do you come to terms
with things that are not the way
you want them to be?

How do you deal with the discrepancy
between the way things are 
and the way you want them to be?

Who do you talk to about the things that matter?

In what ways has the worst thing that ever happened to you
also been the best thing that ever happened to you?

In what ways has the best thing that ever happened to you
also been the best thing that ever happened to you?

How do your expectations and opinions get in your way?

How often do you try to will what cannot be willed?

Who do you know that has ever asked you any of these questions?

How many of these questions would it have been helpful
to be asked before now?

"Fair winds and following seas" with this assignment.

I'm glad to have made your day!

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February 02-B, 2023

Solitary Sandpiper 05/08/2013 Oil Paint Rendered — The Bog Garden, Greensboro, North Carolina
Be free to make mistakes
without being bound to them,
repeating them,
becoming them
to the point where your life
is just one continuing,
eternal mistake
in a Karmaratic,
indulgent,
helplessly incapable
of breaking out of the tradition
kind of way declaring,
"I'm nothing but a screw-up!
I've never been anything but a screw-up!
I'll always be a screw-up!",
glad to be relieved of the burden
of discerning what needs to be done
in a situation
and doing it.

Helping us to discern what needs to be done
in a situation 
and doing it
is what our mistakes are here
to do for us.

Our role is to become better
at knowing and doing what needs to be done,
one mistake at a time.

I hate that I made all the mistakes
I have made--
and recognize the place of each one
in enabling to be where I am today.

Mistakes are self-correcting
adjustment mechanisms
nudging us back onto the path
that can be recognized
only in hindsight,
situation by siutation
all our life long.

There is always something
about the last situation
that helps us improve 
our response to the next situation.

Recognizing that is 
what enlightenment is all about.

There is no steady state of being
called "Enlightened At Last!"

There is only seeing better 
what needs to be done
and doing it when/where/how 
it needs to be done,
one situation at a time.

It is all practice.
Performance is practice.
We are rehearsing
for the next scene
in this scene
forever.

Missing our cues
and forgetting our lines
are all a part of nailing our role
through scripts that change
unannounced,
instantaneously,
and scenes 
that are nothing like
we expected
all along the way.

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February 02-A, 2023

Oriental Plum Oil Paint Rendered
We are told what to believe,
but no one can give us our opinions.
Of course, they try,
but to be genuine,
opinions have to come from within.

Belief from without,
opinions from within.
Articles of faith are opinions
that take themselves seriously.

And, when we don't know
what we think or believe,
it's great to be able to say,
"I don't know what to make of it,
of this, 
or that,
or that over there!"

When things make no sense,
there is no making sense of them,
"we let the mystery be"
(Iris Dement).

Having to explain everything,
or have it explained,
takes the mystery out of it,
and leaves us with what somebody said
that somebody said.

Better to befriend the mystery,
along with wonder
and awe,
and direct encounters
with radiance and the sublime.

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February 01-B, 2023

Ocracoke Lighthouse 10/12/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
How we see what we look at
depends upon how we look at what we see. 

How do we look at liberals?
Conservatives?
Police?
People of Color?
Immigrants?
Orientals?
Trans-gender People?
Etc. through all the lists
of all there is to look at.

We have a pre-determined preference
for the way we look at practically everything.

Our mind is made up,
and we are clear about
what we are going to see
when we look.

The idea of an objective,
unbiased,
non-discriminatory
point of view 
belongs to the category 
of Happy Fantasies. 

We only see what we look for.
We only see what we expect to see.
We cannot see anything
we have no expectations regarding.
It is invisible.

In order to see the thing,
we have to be able to make 
some associations between
the unknown and the known.

We have to be able to categorize it,
label it,
name it
in order to know it.

If it is like ketchup,
and we don't like ketchup,
we don't like it.
If we love ketchup,
we love it.

Or, substitute single malt whiskey
for ketchup,
and the same thing applies.

If we look at anything 
the way we look at ketchup
or single malt whiskey,
we see something different
than we see if we look at it
the way we look at horses or dogs.

The way we look at what we see
determines everything that follows.

So, let's begin looking at everything
as though it is an optical illusion,
and watch it change as we look at it
because we aren't associating it 
with anything,
we are just curious
about what we might see if we look
with blank minds regarding
what we are looking at.

We are looking to see what it has
to show us.
At what it might reveal to us
about itself.

We are looking at a mystery.
At a secret.
At an unknown wonder.
Waiting to see 
what we might be shown.

Everything we look at
has a hidden side.
Has magical qualities
enabling it to become something
we have never seen.

If we keep looking
with a blank mind.

Emptiness,
stillness
and silence
are the path
to balance and harmony,
and all things new.

Waiting to show people
with eyes to see
what is concealed from,
and unknown by,
everyone else.

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February 01-A, 2023

Chrysanthemum 07/08/2012 Oil Paint Rendered
Iris 05/24/2013 Oil Paint Rendered
Jesus said, "You shall know the truth,
and the truth shall set you free."

Begging the questions,
"Free from what?"
"Free to do what?"

And Pilate's inquiry,
"What is truth?"
Which Jesus left hanging through 
all these long years of truthlessness.

Which will continue as long as we look
for truth "out there,"
when it is solely a function
of our own integrity,
of our living out the truth 
of our own humanity,
aligned with the truth of who we are
in all that we do,
exhibiting the truth of our original/essential nature,
and the truth of our innate virtues/traits/character,
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.

We know when we are living truthful lives,
and when we are not.

Jacob Bronowski said,
"You cannot know the truth
unless you live in certain ways."
He meant living truthfully.
With integrity,
at one with inner and outer,
doing/exhibiting/expressing who we are
in the way we live,
in each situation as it arises.

Our bodies know when we are not doing that.
Our lives know it.
But we have our supplements,
and our Fit-Bits.
We have nothing to worry about. 

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February, 2023

Farm Road Fog 05/11/2012 Oil Paint Rendered — Yadkin River Valley, Dinkins Bottom, Yadkin County, North Carolina
I have no idea where we get our filters,
the perception sieve that tilts us
imperceptibly toward the way we see/interpret/comprehend/
understand/judge/determine/take things to be,
and away from different/better/worse ways of doing 
the same thing.

We look and see something different
from the way others look at the same thing.

A lot has to do with what we have at stake
in seeing things as we do.

The old "reasonable people can look at the facts
and draw different conclusions,"
suggests to me that the facts mean something
different to the "reasonable people"
doing the looking.

And that they see things based on the implications
their looking has for them and their lives.

Conservative people and liberal people
tend to see things as conservatives and liberals
and not as "reasonable people."

And so on through all of the categories of people
in the encyclopedia of categories.

Our perceptions are biased in favor of our perspective.
What we see when we look flows
from how we look at what we see.

We do not come objective and unbiased into the day,
any day.

We have a lifetime of experiences and preferences
leading us into all of our encounters
through all of the situations and circumstances
that arise in a day.

In the time left for living.

We see who we are,
who we have become
over the course of being alive.

We are going to be consistent 
with our point of view
which has been developed 
through the impact of life upon us
and the impact of the way we have reacted to it
from the beginning.

We cannot get outside of our point of view
to see things "as they are" ever.

However, we can be responsible for understanding
that how we look determines what we see--
and stop talking about "how things are,"
and start talking about "how we see things,"
and why we see things "this way and not that way"
and how "that is the way things are."

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January 31-D, 2023

Catawba Heron 06-06-2013 Oil Paint Rendered — Catawba River Below the Wylie Dam, York County, South Carolina
I am taken by the flow of life
through the circumstances
and situations of each day--
and how so few people seem to be
aware of it.

My sister-in-law, for instance
(You know the one I mean),
sees every moment as an opportunity
to assert her way upon whatever 
is happening,
with no clue regarding 
how she might assist what is happening
toward its own purposes and goals.

The choice waits to be chosen
by all.
Few know, or care,
that a choice even is to be made.

In each moment of every situation
as it arises
there is the possibility 
of assisting the flow of the situation,
or diverting it,
or dismissing it altogether
and creating a disturbance
of varying degrees of seriousness
from mild to chaotic
to heaving madness beyond anyone's capacity
to redeem,
reclaim,
or salvage. 

Every situation is at the mercy
of those participating 
in its oversight,
stewardship,
management.

Which brings to mind the old saw,
"While it takes a minimum of two
to have a fight,
one person can keep a bad situation
from deteriorating completely 
into all out war
that is totally out of hand."

What this means for us
is the importance of sensing 
the movement,
the flow,
of each situation as it arises
(Or that we step into),
and making the conscious choice
to assist/maintain the momentum
of the moment toward an outcome
that is a natural extension of the here/now,
or stop the drift of the Tao
and redirect things to a different outcome,
regardless of the impact upon 
the situation as a whole. 

Our situations and circumstances
are all we ever have to work with.
We tilt things to better or worse
by the way we size things up
and respond to them
one situation/circumstance at a time.

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January 31-C, 2023

CSX 5283 11/07/2013 Oil Paint Rendered — Waxhaw, North Carolina
There is what we say, "Yes," to,
and there is what we say "No," to,
and that's it.

Our life is lived out between "Yes," and "No."

You might think we would be better
at being clear about,
and dedicated to,
"Yes" being actually and absolutely "Yes!"
and "No" being actually and absolutely "No!",
but no.

We say "Yes," when we know we should say, "No,"
and we say "No," when things would be much better
if we had said, "Yes,"
and live with things being much worse
that they would be 
if we had been honest with ourselves
from the start.

Why are we not honest with ourselves?
Why is not our "Yes," YES! ?
And why is not our "No," NO! ?

Spoken out of our own integrity and sincerity! ?

The simple act of making that the way it is--
letting our "Yes," be YES!
and our "No," be NO!
would transform our life 
and the world,
like that (snaps fingers).

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