
I have no idea where we get our filters, the perception sieve that tilts us imperceptibly toward the way we see/interpret/comprehend/ understand/judge/determine/take things to be, and away from different/better/worse ways of doing the same thing. We look and see something different from the way others look at the same thing. A lot has to do with what we have at stake in seeing things as we do. The old "reasonable people can look at the facts and draw different conclusions," suggests to me that the facts mean something different to the "reasonable people" doing the looking. And that they see things based on the implications their looking has for them and their lives. Conservative people and liberal people tend to see things as conservatives and liberals and not as "reasonable people." And so on through all of the categories of people in the encyclopedia of categories. Our perceptions are biased in favor of our perspective. What we see when we look flows from how we look at what we see. We do not come objective and unbiased into the day, any day. We have a lifetime of experiences and preferences leading us into all of our encounters through all of the situations and circumstances that arise in a day. In the time left for living. We see who we are, who we have become over the course of being alive. We are going to be consistent with our point of view which has been developed through the impact of life upon us and the impact of the way we have reacted to it from the beginning. We cannot get outside of our point of view to see things "as they are" ever. However, we can be responsible for understanding that how we look determines what we see-- and stop talking about "how things are," and start talking about "how we see things," and why we see things "this way and not that way" and how "that is the way things are."
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I agree. Half-full it seems to me. Gratitude’s a gift.
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Insightful as ever, Jim… and yes, Gratitude is a gift💕
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