Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Hatteras Lighthouse 09 10/25/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Hatteras Island, North Carolina
We have a goal:
To live aligned with ourselves,
in sync with our heart,
our nature
and the virtues that are unique
(As in, "Among the virtues of this old mare,
are her gentle way with children,
and her smooth gait when carrying them)
to us--
as unique as our fingerprints
and iris cones--
with honor and respect for one another,
and deep appreciation
for emptiness,
stillness
and silence
in the work of discerning the way
in each situation as it arises,
through all conditions,
contexts,
and circumstances
in the work of balancing contradictions
and living in harmony
with all sentient beings
through all the days of our life.
It helps to remember that,
to be reminded of it,
from time to time.
Mabry Mill 04/20/2010 Oil Paint Rendered — Blue Ridge Parkway, Meadows of Dan, Virginia
Responding to the occasion
in ways appropriate to the occasion
opens the way to being
at one with the moment,
in sync with the time and place
of our living,
aligned with the rhythm and flow
of life here/now,
doing what is called for,
where,
when
and how it is called for--
the essence of peak experiences
throughout the world,
and it can be nothing more
than changing a diaper,
or feeding the cows in the barn.
This is called
"Living at the peak of the ordinary,"
and it is well within our reach
in each situation as it arises.
We miss it by looking for something better,
something finer,
something more.
Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.
Living in paradise,
wanting something else.
It is all in how we look at
what we have,
where we are.
In how we understand the importance
of rhythm and flow,
of what is called for,
necessary,
needed,
required
by the circumstances
defining this time,
this place,
right here,
right now.
And that is contingent upon
how often and how long
we spend being empty
of all thoughts and emotions
in stillness and silence,
just being present
with what is present with us,
with no expectations,
no opinions,
no judgment,
no fear,
no desire,
just being awake,
aware,
alive,
to all that arises unbidden
in the silence,
without engaging it,
being attached to it,
aroused by it,
just waiting,
just watching
to see/hear what is called for,
asked of us
by the conditions of our life
in the situation of our living.
It starts with receptive awareness
and goes where it needs to go,
as we work out the details
regarding balance and harmony,
compassion and integrity
in compliance with what is asked of us
all along the way.
Today is my brother David's happy birthday, and I am honoring him with this gift to you--it is the link to my Flickr album of oil paint rendered images. There are 18 pages in the album. Each page has a slideshow icon. Click it and enjoy the show! (You may have to hit the "back to album" arrow to get to the first page of the album):
https://www.flickr.com/photos/jimdollar/albums/72157716775341387
Hemlock Islands 04 10/13/2009 Oil Paint Rendered — Penobscot Bay, Deer Isle, Maine
Joseph Campbell said, "Living an authentic life
out of the spontaneity of one's own heart--
when based on compassion
and not possession and conquest--
transforms the wasteland
into, you might say,
into a 'land flowing with milk and honey.'"
It becomes a land of blessings and wonder
when we wake up to our own heart,
and let it take the lead
in guiding us through our life.
Milton Ericson said
that when he was just a lad
a horse wandered into his yard
and his father told him
to take the horse home.
Milton climbed onto the horse's back
and kept it from stopping to eat grass--
the horse took itself home.
Our life is a horse that wandered into our yard.
Our life can be trusted
to take us where we need to be.
Our role is to relax into our life,
know when we are getting in the way,
and stay out of the way.
Our ideas for our life
and our life's ideas for itself
are not the same ideas.
We have to know where our ideas
part company with our life's ideas.
We have to trust ourselves to our life.
We all have the ability
to stand up,
meet the day on the day's terms,
and do there what needs to be done.
It is our place to explore
what keeps that from happening,
and stop doing it--
stop interfering with what our life
is trying to do through us.
It is our place
to trust ourselves to our outcomes,
knowing that outcomes
have outcomes,
and that the outcomes beyond the outcome
matter more than the outcome.
There are no ends.
We are to perfect the means,
doing what needs to be done,
the way it needs to be done,
no matter what.
We are to let that be what we live for!
Park Avenue 05/30/2010 Oil Paint Rendered — Arches National Park, Moab, Utah
Living in the moment
and seeing what is to be seen there
is a key aspect of being
awake/aware/alive,
and a function of emptiness/stillness/silence/
balance/harmony,
being aligned with the Tao
and responding appropriately
to each situation as it arises.
Our breathing is an anchor point
connecting us to the moment,
as is remembering to be here/now
through all of the contexts
and circumstances
each day has to offer.
Just seeing,
just being,
here/now
is a radical break
from the cultural triggers
designed to control our thinking
and direct our living
in accord with the capitalistic
drive for Profit At Any Price,
which always leaves us
with being a bit dissatisfied
with our chances
and at mercy of forces
hawking the ever-present distractions
of drugs/sex/alcohol/money,
keeping us in the loop,
immature and wanting
anything to take our mind off
the deficits and deficiencies
of our life.
The Tao would have us understand
that we are always capable
of doing what needs to be done--
what needs us to do it--
through all of the conditions
of every here/now,
and that is all that is ever asked of us.
But we want more:
ecstasy,
bliss,
glory,
eternal and everlasting delight...
when there is only
seeing and doing
the right thing,
at the right time,
in the right place,
in the right way.
Which provides us with
all of the ecstasy, etc.,
we need to go on to the next thing.
And the thing after that.
But the dream of More
diverts us from the task at hand
and leads us into the trackless Waste Land
to wander through our days
looking for something worth having.
Or, we could wake up to the moment
of our living
and be amazed.
We are always that close
to finding what we seek
where we would never think to look.
Rock Castle Gorge Fall 02 11/02/2011 Oil Paint Rendered, Blue Ridge Parkway, Tuggle Gap, VA
We want and don't want.
Our life revolves around,
flows from,
consists of nothing but,
wanting.
We do not know how to live
without wanting.
If we did not live in the sevice
of getting--and getting more of--
what we want,
we would not know what to do with our life.
We never ask,
"How would we know what to want?"
We want it all!
I call BS on wanting.
All of it.
Every aspect of it.
It is an artificial creation
of capitalism,
designed to keep people
buying, buying, buying.
Before wanting,
there was doing what was needed,
whether you wanted to or not.
No one considered if they wanted
to milk the cow,
or feed the chickens,
or weed the garden.
Everyone did what needed to be done.
Wanting was not in the picture.
It is well past time
to return to nature's way
of doing what needs to be done
where, when and how it needs to be done,
without considering what we want.
If the baby's diaper needs to be change,
change the baby's diaper!
If the dog throws up on the carpet,
clean up the mess!
When the traffic light changes,
go or stop
with wanting irrelevant to the occasion.
Forget wanting!
What does wanting know?
When did wanting become
the determinant for action?
Dismiss,
discount,
disregard,
dis entirely
what you want/want not,
and go exclusively
with what needs to be done,
here/now,
in each situation
as it arises.
Do that for the joy of doing it,
and the satisfaction of having done it,
and your life will take a turn
for the better instantly,
on the spot!
Sunset, Day 2, 10/25/2012, 02 Oil Paint Rendered — Pamlico Sound, Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
We make what we can of it--
do what we can with it--
and pass on
back to what we were doing
before life and consciousness interfered
and put us to work.
If you wait long enough,
everything changes,
which makes each moment precious
beyond evaluating.
Time alive and conscious
is of highest value.
We cannot fritter it away
on trivial pursuits!
On entertaining pastimes!
As though it does not matter
how we live.
IT MATTERS HOW WE LIVE!!!
OUR LIFE MATTERS!!!
To ourselves
and to all other forms of life,
whether we know it and care about it,
or not.
It is up to us individually,
personally,
to know and care about it,
and to live as though it matters
who we are and how we live.
To blow that is to blow everything.
And to not blow that is also everything.
This is why we have to develop
our relationship with,
our awareness of,
ourselves,
each other,
emptiness,
stillness,
silence,
balance
and harmony.
It all comes from,
and forms around,
emptiness/stillness/silence/
balance/harmony.
These things are the source
of all that is.
Knowing what to do with it,
with the time that is ours,
comes from,
and forms around,
emptiness/stillness/silence/
balance/harmony.
Our lives are meaningful and precious
to ourselves and to others
in direct proportion
to the amount of time we spend daily
with emptiness/stillness/silence/
balance/harmony.
Do us all the honor
of sitting down,
shutting up,
looking/listening/attending
the emptiness/stillness/silence/
balance/harmony
long enough,
and often enough,
to see/hear/know/realize/be who you are/
do what needs to be done--
in each situation as it arises,
all your life long.
This is called living from your heart.
It is also called saving the world.
Just by doing the right kind of nothing
in the right kind of way.
Teton Range Sunrise 06-25-2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Grand Teton National Park, Jackson, Wyoming
I invented Sweet Chili Sauce Pineapple and Pintos tonight.
Drain a can of pineapple tidbits
and a can of pintos, rinsing the pintos,
dump them in a sauce pan
with 3/4 cup +/- Sweet Chili Sauce
simmer 15-20 min.
stirring occasionally.
The situation called for it
and I complied.
I wasn't trying to force anything
into being,
just seeing what might arise,
and, like that,
out of nowhere,
Chef's Surprise.
Swan Lake 07/05/2019 Oil Paint Rendered — Swan Lake Iris Gardens, Sumter, South Carolina
We have to trust ourselves
to respond appropriately
to each situation as it arises,
spontaneously,
in the moment,
without thinking through all the
implications
and possibilities,
looking for the best chance
of a favorable outcome
with the most potential gain
and the lowest likely loss.
Listen to your initial inclination
and decide Yes or No
without going through
the usual cost/benefit analysis
before acting.
What does it feel like needs to be done?
Every time you can't decide what to do,
shift over into emptiness/stillness/silence
and feel what you feel,
and go with that.
And, if it doesn't work out so well,
feel what to do about that,
and go with it.
"Trust your feelings, Luke!"
invites intuition and instinct
into the conversation.
They will be happy to guide you
along the way.
The Beach House 11/01/2012 Oil Paint Rendered — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
Growing up
is shifting our perspective
examining our perceptions,
evaluating what's important
and changing our mind
about a lot of things.
When was the last time
you changed your mind
about what's important?
If being alive doesn't do that for you,
try being alive with your eyes open.
Enlightenment is nothing more
than seeing what's what
and changing our mind about what matters most--
and allowing the implications of that
to impact our life as they will.
Growing up.
Enlightenment is growing up.
And changing the way we live
to reflect the life
that is ours to live
in doing what is called for
at the right time,
in the right place,
in the right way,
and being good for nothing--
not morally/ethically/puritanically good,
but good for what needs to be done,
when, where and how it needs to be done,
no matter what.
Hemlock Islands 05 10/15/2009 Oil Paint Rendered — Penobscot Bay, Deer Isle, Maine
The influence of art,
music
and nature
connects us with transcendent,
ineffable,
numinous reality,
and restores,
revitalizes,
nurtures,
nourishes
our soul in ways we do not understand.
We experience it
without being able to explain it.
And talking about it
breaks the spell
and snaps us back into the world
of normal,
apparent,
reality.
But, something happened.
Something stirred to life within.
Something reminded us of something,
connected us with something,
if only for a moment.
And we are better for it.
More alive because of it.
Aware of living between worlds,
visible grounded in invisible.
Wonder of wonders.
Hallelujah.
Amen.
Beaufort Fall 05 11/16/2017 Oil Paint Rendered — Harbor River, High Tide, Beaufort, South Carolina
Having faith is having an opinion
and believing in it.
I have faith in the Cajun Queen's
(A restaurant in Charlotte, NC)
ability to deliver a plate
of crawfish etouffee to perfection.
In other words,
in my opinion the crawfish etouffee
at the Cajun Queen is perfect.
Faith is always in an opinion,
if it were in a fact,
it wouldn't be faith.
It would be recognition
of the correctness of the fact.
We don't have faith in gravity,
and we know when the tide goes out
it will come back in.
We don't have faith in the tidal charts.
We know they are valid
and can be counted on.
And we really cannot say that we love God
when God will send us to hell
if we don't love God.
And we really cannot say that God loves us
(unconditionally, it is usually said),
if God will send us to hell if we don't love God
(That is a big condition).
Having faith is holding opinions
that are founded on other peoples' opinions.
It is a circle that can be maintained
only by saying "If you believe it,
your experience will confirm that it is so."
Astrology, horoscopes, black magic and superstitions
are grounded on the same declaration.
Believing makes it so.
But, the people who believe
have to believe
because they believe
that without faith in their opinion,
there is nothing to hold them up,
provide a moral base for their life
and give them a reason for living.
They are afraid to not believe
what they believe.
I say they need to test their faith
in believing
by seeing what else they could believe
that would provide them
with a foundation for life.
Why do they take on faith what they take on faith
and not something else instead?
For instance, in my opinion
it matters how we live.
I have faith in my opinion,
and am validated by the millions of people
who share my faith through the ages.
I believe it matters how we live
and I have a "plan of salvation,"
if you will,
for putting that into effect,
which has also been in existence
from more than 1,000 years BCE
(The Buddha lived from 563 to 483 +/- BCE,
and Taoism was going around 1,000 BCE,
and Yoga and Hinduism existed before that).
It comes down to doing the right thing
at the right time
in the right place
and in the right way,
no matter what--
with no personal gain in mind.
Just doing what needs to be done,
when, where and how it needs to be done,
for the joy of doing it
and the satisfaction of having done it,
in each situation as it arises.
That is as solid a foundation for life
as there is,
without having to have an elaborate structure
of doctrines and theology
to hold it in place.
We all have to have some grounding,
guiding,
orienting,
comforting,
consoling
opinion to help us along the way.
What's yours?