We find our way, not by serving/doing/seeking what we want, but opening ourselves to what needs us to do it-- to what needs us in particular to do it. And discover, thereby, that what needs our peculiar blend of gifts/shtick/knacks/interests/loves/daemon/etc. is precisely what we need most to bring forth, exhibit/express/incarnate/make known. We discover who we are and what we are capable of by experiencing in ourselves what is called forth/elicited/evoked in doing what needs to be done, and needs us to do it, when, where, how it needs to be done, in each situation as arises, no matter what, all our life long. I say this all the time because it cannot be said too often. And you are still being led around by your wants and have yet to discover/explore/experience your original nature and your innate virtues that the world is dying for, thinking "These things mean nothing to me. I'm after fortune and glory!"