Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Tunnel View 03/24/2006 Oil Paint Rendered — Yosemite National Park, California
Believe anything you want--
it doesn't matter what--
as long as you do what needs to be done,
when, where and how it needs to be done,
in each situation as it arises
without an eye on what's in it for you.
How often do those who
"Believe in God the Father Almighty,
maker of heaven and earth,
and in HIS only son, Jesus Christ our Lord,
who was..."
do that?
Sparks Lane Panorama 02-28-2014 Oil Paint Rendered — Cades Cove, Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Townsend, Tennessee
People talk all the time using words
to say what they mean.
Words are useless when it comes to meaning.
Meaning is among the most personal of things.
Coffee doesn't mean to you what it means to me,
and vice versa around the room.
Nothing does.
Meaning is ours alone.
And we cannot say what we mean.
Everybody says, "I love you,"
but what do they mean?
Ask them to show you.
And you show them.
How would you demonstrate love?
Listening is my favorite way.
I'll show you I love you
by listening to you.
Attending you.
Seeing you.
"I SEE YOU!"--
Jack Nicholson's line to Helen Hunt
in 1997's "As Good As It Gets"
is as good as any movie line delivered.
Nailed it.
Love is seeing, hearing, knowing.
Without being intentional about it,
being natural about it,
spontaneous about it,
not even thinking about it,
just seeing, hearing, knowing...
Being with whomever we are with
in loving ways
entails seeing, hearing, knowing.
None of which can be explained,
defined, told, said.
"The Tao that can be said, told, explained
is not the eternal Tao."
"Those who know don't say.
Those who say, don't know."
The best talking is showing not saying.
Show kindness.
Show compassion.
Show allegiance.
Show people what you mean.
Ask them to show you what they mean.
Revolutionize communication!
Beaver Pond 04/29/2010 Oil Paint Rendered — Bass Lake Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina
Zen is what happened
when Taoism met Buddhism.
The essence of Zen
is the essence of Taoism.
Their differences are insignificant
compared to their essentials.
For instance, the place of zazen
to either is "Take it or leave it,
it is up to you.
If you like it, fine,
if you don't like it, fine."
As far as enlightenment goes,
"To seek it is not to find it,
and to find it is to realize
there is nothing to it.
You still have to mow the lawn
and wash the dishes,
and pay the bills."
Enlightenment is seeing,
and seeing is seeing what needs to be done
and doing it,
in each situation as it arises.
It is not getting, owning, possessing,
having,
any advantage, gain, benefit, position, etc."
There are no billionaire/millionaire/wealthy
Zen masters or Taoist sages.
Zen and Taoism are not the way
to anything other
than the way of seeing/doing,
with no interest in the outcome
beyond seeing/doing
what needs to be done about it
with no interest in anything
beyond seeing/doing here/now.
"For what?" you wonder?
For nothing beyond
the joy of doing it
and the satisfaction of having done it--
and the opportunity
to see/do it again,
here/now!
"Why would anyone bother?"
There are no reasons to bother
with Taoism/Zen/Enlightenment!
If you do not care to see/do, fine.
If you care to see/do, fine.
What do you care to do?
Both Taoism and Zen fell on hard times
when they became popular
and their monasteries ceased to be places
older people could go
practice seeing/doing
and enjoying the community
of each others' company,
and became places where well-to-do parents
sent their children to become enlightened
masters/sages
because "It would be good for them."
Sitting zazen then became a way of
instilling discipline
and passing time--
in other words, "busy work"
to keep the kids still and quiet.
And everything went to hell
at the same time political fortunes fell,
and persecution of Taoist/Zen monks
destroyed much of the foundation
of the practices,
and gunpowder disappeared the value
of the martial arts
(Another way of passing the time,
instilling discipline),
and that was pretty much that.
All of which is to say
"A fish is only a fish,
and when you make too much of it,
you lose the whole point of it."
(Robert Ruark).
Enlightenment is a fish
by another name.
View From Grandfather Mountain 07 10/13/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina
If we keep asking the same questions,
we will keep getting the same answers.
Pay attention to the questions you ask,
noting how many remain the same over time.
Things are the way they are
because we are only allowed to ask
the same questions.
Every institution/structure limits the questions
that can be asked about the institution/structure.
Start by asking what cannot be asked.
"What questions are not permitted?"
"What questions make people uncomfortable here?"
Follow that up with
"What assumptions/presumptions
do these questions expose,
maintain,
keep in place?"
We aren't going to begin to ask better questions
until we begin to ask different questions.
"Who says so?"
and "How do they know?"
Are two of my faves.
Follow-up questions are crucial.
The two rules for question asking are:
Ask all of the questions that beg to be asked.
Say all of the things that cry out to be said
(Saying those things will initiate additional questions,
and the two rules together will take you
straight to the bottom of what's what).
Two Swans Swimming Oil Paint Rendered — Trumpeter Swans, Swan Lake Iris Gardens, Sumter, South Carolina
The worst thing that ever happened to you
can be the best thing that ever happened to you.
The best thing that ever happened to you
can be the worst thing that ever happened to you.
Depending, of course, upon how you respond
to what happens to you.
How we respond to what happens to us,
for good or for ill,
determines the outcome
and the outcome beyond the outcome,
which is, of course, karma.
We create karma by the way we respond
to what happens to us.
It becomes good or ill
by the way we respond to it,
by what we do with it,
by how we apply it to our life
and live our life around it,
flowing from it
into all the world.
How we respond to what happens to us
brings us forth,
exhibits/expresses who we are,
shapes and forms our identity
for ever.
We produce the future
by the way we live with the present.
We produce ourselves
by the way we are with the moment,
this moment,
right here,
right now.
This moment,
right here,
right now,
is an extension of the last moment,
and of all the moments
before the last moment--
and they all determine,
or strongly influence,
the next moment,
the one that is already taking shape
as I type these words
and as you read them.
Karma.
Unfolding before our eyes.
Our gift to ourselves
and all the world.
December Shoreline 01 Detail 12/14/2012 — Bur-Mill Park, Lake Brandt Greenway, Greensboro, North Carolina
What is the difference between
having faith in something,
and having an opinion about something?
Between having strong faith,
and having a strong opinion?
Knowing in your heart you are right
would apply to both.
Having deep conviction
would apply to both.
Hearing it from someone else
(including the Bible)
would apply to faith,
but perhaps not to opinion
(We crank out those babies
on our own all the time).
I'm saying that,
in my opinion,
or, I take it on faith,
that the line is so faint
it cannot be seen,
and has to be assumed,
opinioned,
or faithed,
into place.
Faith is an opinion
that takes itself seriously.
Beaufort Fall 04 11/14/2017 Oil Paint Rendered — Beaufort, South Carolina
I ditched theology five years into the ministry,
on the occasion of Ruth Sample's death,
and spent the next 35.5 years making sense of things
without theology.
The de-theologizing of religion was/is incredibly simple.
Start with the basics:
Your fingerprints.
Your fingerprints,
and your iris cones,
and your original nature
and your innate virtues/traits/characteristics
(Here we will take a break.
"Virtues" have nothing to do with "humility,
charity, chasity, temperance, patience
and diligence," or with "benevolence, righteousness,
propriety, wisdom and trustworthiness,"
and have everything to do with the things you
do naturally and well--
your virtues are the things you are good at,
as in "The virtues of this mare are her smooth gait
and her gentle way with riders,"--
and together form a mixture which set you apart from
everyone else who has ever, or ever will, live)
and all of the other things which shape your identity
which make you, you,
and different from all other sentient beings.
You/I/We are the ground/foundation
of religion sans theology.
The deeper we get into ourselves,
the deeper there is to yet go,
and we discover, as Heraclitus did,
that “traveling on every path,
(we) will not find the boundaries
of soul by going;
so deep is its measure.”
Aye, but, we are a lazy bunch,
stiff-necked and hard-headed,
and do not care a bit for the work
of uncovering ourselves
and doing what is called for
in aligning ourselves with ourselves
and taking up the work of balance and harmony,
so that things mesh smoothly within and without,
making the peace
in becoming one with oursselves,
others
and circumstances.
We prefer the easy way,
the course of least resistance,
and settle for doing it as it has always been done,
so that lethargy and shortcuts call the shots,
and we get by with as little as possible,
while complaining and whining about
that being too much.
We don't have what it takes to bring ourselves forth,
be who we are,
and do what is ours to do
in each situation as it arises.
We betray our calling
and exchange our destiny
for a life of drugs/sex/alcohol/money/
diversion/distraction/denial
in the wasteland of eternal discontent.
To do otherwise requires us to change our mind
about what is important
when we get to the end of our rope,
and do what is necessary
to reclaim our birthright
and live in accord with our original nature
and innate virtues
through the daily practice
of emptiness/stillness/silence
and doing what is called for,
when, where and how it is called for
in each situation as it arises,
no matter what
all our life long.
(Here, we will take another break.
Emptiness is emptying ourselves
of all thoughts and emotions,
memories, dreams, desires, wishes,
hates, fears, dreads...
everything.
Letting it go the instant it arises,
ordering it to go to the room in our awareness
especially suited to contain such things,
and returning to your breathing,
becoming as empty as the space between breaths.
Silence is just that.
no music,
no drumming,
no humming,
no chanting,
no noise...
Stillness is no fidgeting,
no twisting,
no turning,
no looking around...
5 to 20 minutes once or twice a day)
This is the Sisyphean Task
of doing the next needed thing
day-by-day for the rest of our life.
BORING!!!
And, it is also the path from the Garden of Eden
to the Garden of Gethsemane.
All of the old biblical symbols are apropos
to our awakening and development
quite apart from theology!
De-theologizing the symbols
"turns the light around,"
and anchors us upon the ground of our being
and secures our everlasting proximity
to the well-spring of living water,
from which revitalization,
realization
and renewal ceaselessly flow.
Our life becomes our touchstone,
evidence of our own validity,
our own value,
our own trustworthiness--
and our north star,
guiding our way forward
in light of where we are
by virtue of where we have been.
The experience of ourselves
in our own life
through all the circumstances
and situations
to here/now,
is quite beyond words.
No one can say
how we know what we know
or how we know what's what,
or by what assurance
we can trust ourselves to our life
and find the way
when "The path that can be discerned
as a path,
is not a reliable path"
(Martin Palmer).
The Tao te Ching places our plight
clearly before us:
"Darkness within darkness,
the gateway to mystery!"
No theology can help us here!
Words cannot help us here!
Words cannot go where we must go!
Only experience,
past and present,
and intuition,
instinct,
the "feel" for what's what
and what needs to be done in response to it
right here, right now,
the felt reliance upon the sense
of this, not that,
now, not then,
the spontaneous,
un-thought,
un-contrived,-
un-planned
in-the-moment
response to the situation as it is unfolding
before us,
can guide us here.
Emptiness/stillness/silence
can help prepare us
for the way that cannot be discerned
as a way,
but no human guide is worth her,
is worth his,
soothing reassurance and directing words.
We are on our own,
and learn as Jesus did,
as the Buddha did,
to rely upon the inward,
invisible,
grace that is always with us
"to the end of the age."
This is the Gethsemane portion of the way,
the dying place--
to be reborn,
only to die again
a bit further along.
Eden and Gethsemane dance us as an
everlasting duet
across time and place,
and we dance our heart out
along with them
all the way.
Wetlands Sunrise 12/26/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Four-mile Creek Greenway, Charlotte, North Carolina
There is mindlessness everywhere I look!
Our only hope is being attentive
to what is going on,
and to what is called for,
where, when and how!
Clarity combined with courage and consciousness
form a union unparalleled
in the field of time.
The world is a wasteland
waiting for,
as Joseph Campbell would say,
"individuals living authentic lives
out of he spontaneity of their own hearts--
when that heart is a noble heart
and that spontaneity is based on compassion,
rather than conquest and possession."
In the moment of their awakening,
they are linked by their original nature,
innate virtues (traits, character)
and essential identity
with the very life that is necessitated
by the circumstances of their existence.
Just as "it took the Cyclops
to bring forth the hero in Ulysses"
(Campbell),
so it takes the occasion of our present moment
to bring us into the full flowering
of our possibilities and potential
in meeting the moment of our living
as those who will not be put off
or misdirected,
or sat aside
by any combination of fear,
hatred,
anger
and desire
from our task of seeing and doing
what needs to be done
and needs us to do it
in each situation as it arises--
no matter how useless or pointless
it appears to be--
through all of the situations
that will yet arise,
in the cause of being faithful to ourselves
and alert to what beckons in the dimension of action
through all the days of our lives.
May it be always so!
Dugger’s Creek Falls 01 05/11/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Blue Ridge Parkway, Linville Falls Parking Area, North Carolina
Our work can be an expression of
our original nature
and innate virtues/traits/character,
and it can be what we do to pay the bills
in order to serve/express/exhibit
our original nature
and innate virtues "in the background,"
"on the side,"
"in our spare time."
Too often,
we have to "walk two paths at the same time"
to pay the bills
and do what is ours to do.
The trick with the two paths at once trick
is to keep one eye on "this path,"
while the other eye remains on "that one."
Always reminding ourselves of "the other path,"
keeps us mindful of balance and harmony
and maintaining a healthy relationship
with both sides at once.
The other trick is to return to the silence,
stillness and emptiness often enough
to stay in touch with both paths
and what they are asking of us
in order to maintain our emotional/physical
balance and harmony
in doing what has to be done
on both levels simultaneously.
We do the work to make it work,
feeding body and soul
day by day.
Ocracoke to Cedar Island Ferry 10/23/2011 Oil Paint Rendered — Pamlico Sound, Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
The older I get,
the more sensitive to,
aware of,
impatient with,
I become regarding
intrusions,
encroachments,
incursions into
my life
and my preferred ways
of doing things.
For instance,
commercial advertisements.
And non-stop talkers.
Non-stop talkers
are at least accessible
and I can break into their monologue
with clarifying questions
that give them pause
and shift things into areas
they evidently have never considered
and brings our mutual humanity to life,
if only momentarily.
I don't do social without breaking the mold
and making inquiries about what matters most
and how they know,
and how anyone else would know
by the way they honor it in their life.
Time is precious to me
because there is not as much left
as there once was,
and everyone lives as though money
is important
when it is what we do with money
that is important,
and everyone seems bent on
doing the same things with it
with nothing to indicate that
any of it is important on any level,
except that it generates more money
to be spent on nothing much at all.
And, if I don't call attention to that,
who will?
Calling attention to discrepancies
and dichotomies is one of my specialties,
and I use social occasions
to explore them
the way some people use social occasions
to say the same things they say
at every social occasion.
And if that works to provide me
with little in the way of a social calendar,
what's the harm in that?
The Sound 10/21/2012 Oil Paint Rendered — Pamlico Sound, Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
Joseph Campbell said the path of maturity
is that of "breaking out of the psychological
bondage to the culture
into a self-responsible authority
with the courage
to accept and express
one's own thoughts about one's own life."
We are to become self-directed,
self-propelled,
self-sustaining
human beings in our own right.
How, here's the thing about that:
Nothing is lonelier than being on our own.
This is where the secret foundation of our life
comes to our rescue.
Maryanne Moore said,
"The cure for loneliness is solitude."
Solitude is finding the inner connection
with the One Who Knows within,
and establishing a working/living relationship
with the side of ourselves
that we are mostly unconscious of,
and being attentive to
and present with
that which is present with us.
Solitude differs from loneliness
in that loneliness cuts us off
and isolates us from
all aspects of life.
We are excluded from relationships
and expelled from community.
Solitude, on the other hand,
opens us to possibilities of
relationship and communal living
with the Thou at the heart
of the invisible/unconscious world,
as the moved in response to the mover.
We enter that relationship
with a communal state of being
by being open to it
through the right kind of emptiness--
empty of all thoughts and emotions
(like the space between breaths)--
stillness and silence,
and waiting for what arises unbidden
as though from the Thou within,
which is our adamantine connection
with our original nature
and the innate virtues/traits/characteristics
that set us apart from all others of our species
and identify us as Who We Are.
From that point,
things take on a life
of their own,
and you have an inner companion
for the journey to yourself
through the world of external conditions
and circumstances
in the physical world
of normal, apparent, reality,
with your inner world
guiding, assisting,
your navigation in the outer world,
and you doing the work of
balancing/harmonizing
life at the interface of both worlds.
It is the adventure of a lifetime,
waiting on the other side of silence.
Fall on Little River 11/10/2006 Oil Paint Rendered — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Townsend District, Tennessee
All we need is a sounding board.
We all need a sounding board.
Someone with nothing at stake
in us or what becomes of us,
who can simply listen us to the truth
of what's what with us
enabling clarity,
bringing forth realization,
being, for us,
the vehicle of enlightenment,
satori,
awakening,
knowing
who we are and how it is with us
in the here/now
of our life.
You do this for me.
In revealing myself to you,
I reveal myself to me,
and step with understanding
into each day.
More balanced and harmonious,
at one with the Tao
and aligned with the flow of life
than I could ever be without you.
Thanks for that.
Where would I be without you?
It would be a darker,
colder,
place,
for sure!
Yours is the place of a really good therapist
in my life,
enabling me to get to the bottom of me,
look around,
take stock,
acknowledge the how it is,
examine the what to do about it,
and put things together
in a way I could never do it on my own,
without you.
So, whatever you find here
that you can use
is where you and I are alike
in ways that reflect each of us
to ourselves,
and serve as common ground
on our mutual journey
to the truth of who we are,
and what the implications are
of that for the way we live our life.
To Truth!
To Life!
Together!
Along the Way!