Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
We are as close to Jesus and the Buddha as some people will ever get.
We bring as much of God to life in our life as some people will ever experience.
If we aren't doing it as it ought to be done moment to moment in each situation as it arises, why not?
If we aren't doing the things that need to be done, saying the things that need to be said, asking the questions that need to be asked, being whom the times need us to be, why not?
When "the world is too much with us, late and soon" (William Wordsworth), or life is, we need a place to go to lay our burdens down.
I have arranged three landscape stones on my book case as an imaginary link to the Wailing Wall.
I take grief that is too much to bear to my Wailing Wall Link and deposit it there (All in my imagination) to take its place with the grief and mourning of the ages.
And when it is time for another round with it, I go back to stand before my bookcase and remember the losses and sorrows. When I have had enough for a while, I leave them there to return again by and by.
The Wailing Wall and all of our links to it bear all of the pain of the world-- of the cosmos, and keeps it in good stead for us until we are ready for another round of remembrance and agony.
A very present help in time of trouble, enabling us to face what must be faced in our own time and our own way, and face it again, in that it is always near at hand, never to be out-grown or left behind.
West Prong Bridge — Chimneys Picnic Area, Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee
Focusing's foundational question, "Except for what is everything just fine?" is trumped by the realization, "It's all useless, hopeless, pointless, futile, stupid, ludicrous and absurd-- and coming to a very bad end (We are all going to die). But other than that, it's all great."
Which itself is negated by the counter-realization, "How do we know the end is actually the end or all that bad? It could be the opening to wonders beyond imagining!"
And, "All of our reasons for giving up, caving in, rolling over and calling it quits, are themselves trumped by the simple shift in perspective which asks, "So what if it is all useless, etc.? What difference does it make if nothing makes a difference? Who cares if nobody cares? Why not give it our best effort, even if it does no good?"
And, dedicating ourselves to the eternal service of the good of the moment beginning right here, right now, doing what is called for, when, where and how it is called for, anyway, nevertheless, even so-- moment after moment, time after time, for the joy of doing it and the satisfaction of having done it, always and forever, Amen!
Fidelity to the good of the here/now, with fealty, filial loyalty and unwavering devotion, is the solution to all of our troubles, now and always.
And is the sacred ground at the heart of Focusing in all times and places.
Getting up and doing what needs to be done, when, where and how it needs to be done, no matter what, forever, restores us to our soul, and our soul to us, day after day.
Four Mile Creek 03 — Four Mile Creek Greenway, Charlotte/Mecklenburg Parks and Recreation, Charlotte, North Carolina
Walter Brueggermann wrote The Prophetic Imagination, in 1978 about the wonder of Old Testament prophets being able to imagine a world different from the one they lived in, and the courage they displayed to call the people of Israel to live in that world.
"The prophetic imagination" is always calling us beyond this here/now into the next here/now-- the one we are capable of living into existence by following the lead of our imaginative intuition, which is always on the cusp, on the threshold of "The Old has passed away! Behold the New has come!"
The new world beckons from beyond this world's ideas for itself, directing us to find our way to it by listening to our intuitive guide and doing what is called for in each situation as it arises, allowing the simple act of doing what needs to be done, when, where and how it needs to be done, to lead us into "all things new"-- which we could not foresee, but are able to bring forth, just by doing what is called for in each moment at hand.
If you are looking for a calling, you cannot find a better one than doing what is called for here/now and allowing that to carry us into the next here/now and all that are to come!
Live Oak at Melrose Plantation — Cane River National Heritage Trail, Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana
There is a psychic energy "feel" to bars, restaurants, air ports, school reunions, etc.
Everywhere people gather has its own "sense of being." A DMV waiting room has a special kind of "Get Me Out Of Here Now!" feel to it' because no one wants to be there, especially the people who work there.
What is being emitted to create the "feel" of place?
How is it being received/known?
We know/sense if we belong where we are, if it is a "good fit," if we are "home."
Or not.
Whatever the "atmosphere," we know whether it is conducive to our spirit, or not.
If the "vibes" aren't right, we are better off being somewhere else.
The hermits/introverts among us think we are better off being alone-- and make being alone a high-priority item because we can be separated from our own experiencing by noise/complexity/drama/trauma, lose our orientation and our internal guidance and be overwhelmed by the intrusion a boisterous WE.
The Dairy Barn 02 B — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, South Carolina
Opinions, plans and adgendas interfere with our ability to read the signs of the times, know what's what and what's called for in response out of our original nature and intrinsic virtues/virtuosites (The things we do best and love doing most), when/where/how it needs to be done in each situation as it arises no matter what all our life long.
Which is to say that living in the service of what we desire/want to happen keeps us from living in the service of what is called for here/now and doing what needs to be done.
We prevent from happening what needs to happen in living to serve our opinions, plans and agendas.
We block our life from being what it could by insisting on what we desire/want at the expense of all other things.
And we can turn things around like that (snaps fingers), just by changing our mind about what's important.
TheHitching Post 2018 01 — The Carriage House, Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, NC
My intuition seems to have more than me in mind.
I find myself doing things without knowing why, and never find out. I take it to mean that I am filling someone else's need, playing a supporting role in someone else's life.
It isn't just about me, or us. We are part of the matrix of life generally, and our place has a larger impact than our own concerns and interests.
The people who benefit from our being here are many more than we are aware of. We play a part in lives we know nothing about.
Karma is interacting in lives beyond counting every day. I'm glad I don't have to keep up with it, or keep track of it.
Our place in life, and in the lives of others, is larger than we can imagine or comprehend.
The next time you find yourself doing something you don't understand, chalk it up to being a part of someone else's web of life, smile and go on.
Announcing Intentions — Donnelley Wildlife Management Area, Danese, South Carolina Another good reason not to go alone into the Coastal Wetlands And not to get out of your car
Allowing our intrinsic intuition to guide us is to step outside the authoritative framework of our thinking brain and its ideas of what is in our best interest, and to remain inside the body/soul network and its deep sense of our calling and orientation.
The thinking brain is late on the scene of evolutionary development. The Old Brain is used to gathering information of a different sort from the sensory organs of the body/soul and applying that to the threats and choices coming to us through our experience in the external world.
How our two brains read the world and apply that to leading us along the way presents us with a choice to make regarding which guide to follow when.
Our intuition is a Right Brain function. Our rational/logical/reasoning process is a Left Brain function. The two brains have different ways of considering what is in our best interest, and we have to decide for ourselves in light of what do we live.
What is best for us in terms of our body/soul connection, may not at all be what is best for us in terms of our early retirement and bottom line concerns.
We have to manage our own conflicts of interest and decide which side we are on in choosing who is to guide our boat on it's path through the sea, in light of the destination we have in mind.
How our two brains read the world and apply that to leading us along the way presents us with a choice to make regarding which guide to follow when.
We have to manage our own conflicts of interest and decide which side we are on in choosing who is to guide our boat on it's path through the sea, in light of the destination we have in mind. But. What makes us think it is worth having?
Right brain and left brain have different ideas about what is worth our time and effort. What do we say matters most? Everything rides on our decision here. And we are all on our own with this one.
Trumpeter Swans on Swan Lake — Swan Lake Iris Gardens, Sumter, South Carolina
Tranquil scenes allow us to sink into the moment, absorbing the rightness of here/now, and participating in the universal recognition of the importance of being present with what is present with us for the experience of oneness with all of the cosmos-- like seeing the wonder of the ocean in one drop of water, or one grain of sand.
Presence is the wonder itself. "The ability to be with anything within our field of awareness," is the way Ann Weiser Cornell thinks of Presence.
Present with, accepting of, all there is, as it is, right here, right now, always and forever.
Why not?
"If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to (us) as it is, Infinite" (William Blake).
We participate in the act of "cleansing the doors of perception" by stopping to see the moment and being present with everything within or field of awareness."
Or, allowing ourselves to be stopped by the moment, as with this one.
West Prong Bridge — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, The Chimney’s Picnic Area, Gatlinburg, Tennessee
Hitler captivated his audiances and talked them into seeing the way he saw things. He had a "hypnotic personality." "Strong, forceful personalities" can be that way.
Politicians and evangelical preachers and "snake oil" salesmen thrive on having "the gift."
The rest of us would do well to spend our time away from their influence, and happy to be at home in emptiness, stillness and silence.
We are born with an original nature, intrinsic virtues/virtuosities (The things we do best and love to do most), and an inherent intuition, which is a built-in sense of direction, intuiting "Yes and No" from birth.
And, we would do well to develop our relationship with these things, learning to know what we know and how to trust our own innate sense of who we are and what we need to do and to leave undone.
However, the inner signals can be jammed by powerful personalities, and by parents who force their authority upon us and "training us in the way they think we should go" from birth.
We meet a lot of resistance in our work to be who we are, and have to be resilient and determined to follow our own heart and live to be who we are, no matter what.
Glade Creek Mill 00 — Babcock State Park, Danese, West Virginia
Listening to ourselves, hearing what is going on within, knowing how we are being impacted by the circumstances of our life, and responding to that with a level of empathy and compassion appropriate for the situation as a whole, would be an important step toward balance and harmony, and a partnership with ourselves based on mutual respect and encouragement for the effort of meeting life as it comes day to day.
We don't get enough help, we don't have good-enough choices, and we don't know where to turn too much of the time.
Yet, we can always Buddy-up with ourselves in a "Here we are, now what?" kind of way whenever we need a hand with attitude adjustment and squaring ourselves up with how things are.
Our best invisible friend is always right here with a wink and a smile when the times call for such, and it would be wrong to not look them up!