The Two Paths of Yin and Yang
pair off in different configurations
throughout our life.

We are always walking 
two paths at the same time.

And the better able we are to do this, 
the better everything will be
all the way around.

We balance/harmonize opposites
by the way we relate to them
always and forever.

There is the care/don't care paradox.
We have to live as though we care
when we don't care at all,
and, of course, vice-versa.

We have to live like it matters
when it doesn't matter one bit.
And, vice-versa.

We have to put ourselves on the line
every day,
and we have nothing to lose all of the time.

Etc. And so on and so forth. Like that. Without end.

Squaring up to eternal incompatibilities,
embracing the contradictions,
reconciling in our own bodies
mutually-exclusive polarities,
and bearing the pain
of how things are
and how things also are
is the very essence of being alive.

It is how we get up and face the day
every day,
as though we mean it
when we had rather be somewhere else,
anywhere else,
all the time--
because everything depends on it,
and that is how it is,
and also is.

World without end. 
Amen.

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Knowing what needs to be done
and doing it
is all there is to it
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.

Getting what we want
and having our way
doesn't take precedent
over doing what needs to be done,
but we don't neglect ourselves, either.

We. Do. What. Needs. To. Be. Done.

Sometimes that's a chocolate shake.
Sometimes, it's a nap.
Or reading a book.

We are in charge.
We make the call.
We draw the line.
We say what's what.

With all things considered.

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AMERICA! LISTEN TO ME! 
THE WAY YOU THINK THINGS ARE
IS NOT! THE WAY THINGS ARE!!!

THE WAY YOU THINK THINGS ARE
IS ONLY YOUR OPINION
ABOUT THE WAY THINGS ARE!!!

STOP WATCHING TV!
STOP ENGAGING WITH SOCIAL MEDIA!
STOP LISTENING TO RADIO --
ESPECIALLY TALK RADIO!!!

STOP LISTENING TO YOUR FRIENDS!
STOP LISTENING TO YOUR PREACHER!

RETREAT TO EMPTINESS, STILLNESS AND SILENCE!!!
IMMERSE YOURSELF IN ART, MUSIC AND NATURE!!!

LISTEN TO NOTHING BUT EMPTINESS, STILLNESS AND SILENCE,
AND ART, MUSIC AND NATURE!!!

FOR AS LONG AS IT TAKES 
FOR YOU TO SEE THAT YOUR OPINION
ABOUT THE WAY THINGS ARE
AND THE WAY THINGS ARE
ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!!!

AND THAT ALL YOU HAVE IS YOUR OPINION
ABOUT THE WAY THINGS ARE!!!

SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM YOUR OPINION
SO THAT ALL YOU HAVE IS NO IDEA
ABOUT THE WAY THINGS ARE!!!

BE LIKE A BABY JUST BORN!!!
A BIRD JUST HATCHED!!!
DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING!!!

STAY WITH THE EMPTINESS, STILLNESS AND SILENCE
AND WITH ART, MUSIC AND NATURE,
UNTIL THE MUD SETTLES
AND THE WATER CLEARS
AND YOU ARE YOU
AND EVERYTHING ELSE
IS EVERYTHING ELSE
AND REMAIN THERE
WITH YOU BEING YOU
AND EVERYTHING ELSE BEING EVERYTHING ELSE
SO THAT YOU KNOW
WHERE YOU STOP
AND EVERYTHING ELSE STARTS
AND MAINTAIN HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!

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You can gauge your degree of indoctrination
by the number of questions
you will not allow yourself to ask,
or permit others to ask.

I wonder what questions Jesus
would not ask
or allow others to ask.

And Herod.
And Pilate.
And Calaphas.
The list is long.

We are all held captive
by the questions 
we are not allowed to ask.

What are yours?
What doors can you not open?
What worlds can you not explore?
What possibilities can you not see?

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Toss aside the twin perils of modern life
(Having your way
and getting what you want),
and adopt as a healthy replacement
doing what needs to be done,
when,
where
and how it needs to be done
in each situation as it arises
no matter what
all your life long.

You will be instantly happier
without the constant pressure/worry
over struggling to arrange things
to your eternal satisfaction forever,
and with the everlasting joy
of finding and doing your best,
regardless of the outcome,
through all of the ups and downs of life.

Effort Not Outcome!
Bringing forth our best 
to meet life's worst
and letting that be that
will do wonders for our 
sense of peace and well-being.

Understanding that we do not have
to be happy
is the surprising key to happiness!

And leaves us to focus 
on doing what needs to be done
whether or not it makes us happy
(Spoiler alert: It probably will!).

The key realization is:
We Don't Have To Please Anyone--
Not Even Ourselves!

We only have to meet the day
with what the day needs to have done,
with only our original nature
and our innate virtues/attributes
to work with.

That takes an inordinate amount 
of pressure off of our need to be successful.
We only need to align our gifts
with the day's interests
and let nature take its course.

What do we have that this moment could use?
What is called for here/now
that we are able to supply?
Poof!
That's all there is to it!

And we are eternally free from the struggle
to have our way
and get what we want
(And when did that ever work out
for anyone's good,
especially our own?).

Right?

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An image in this collection--
or in any collection--
that draws your attention, 
catches your eye,
inviting a closer look,
and the words in the list 
that follows
are ready subjects
for meditation,
contemplation,
reflection,
and as such,
serve as portkeys,
thresholds,
doorways to new realizations
and new ways of living:

Balance and harmony,
emptiness, stillness, silence,
integrity, sincerity, spontaneity,
original nature,
innate virtues/attributes,
noise, complexity, trauma, drama,
questions, meditation, contemplation, 
reflection,
realization.

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Live to find out
how influential an individual 
can be
simply by living the way
life needs to be lived,
moment by moment.

We try for too much of an impact
and give up too soon
because of the apparent hopelessness
of the situation--
of each situation as it arises
throughout our life.

Throw hope and hopeless
in the burning barrel 
and just live your life
here/now
as though it matters how you live
in spite of appearances to the contrary.

Be crazy, stupid, insanely good
for nothing
here/now
for no reason
throughout what remains
of the time left for living!

You will never be given better advice,
or come up with a better idea,
or think of anything better to do.

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Everyone who knows
knows theology is opinion
based on hearsay
and misconceptions.

The misconceptions center around
sin and redemption 
being the foundation of True Religion.

The hearsay has to do
with the death and resurrection of Jesus.

Both come together beautifully
to provide the Roman Catholic Church
with the necessary invisible foundation
to take on Roman emperors
in the struggle for control of the Empire.

The Roman Catholic Church decided
what was to be in the Bible,
and then said, "The Bible says..."
in becoming the most powerful force on earth.

The men who put it together were brilliant,
unscrupulous, and without conscience,
but evil is just that way.

The Eastern Orthodox,
Greek Orthodox
and Russian Orthodox Churches
arose at the same time 
the Roman Catholic Church did 
and survived without
the doctrine of original sin,
but they cannot rival the Roman church
for wealth and power.

Celtic Christianity,
being on the far edge 
of the Roman Church's reach
also makes little use of original sin.

The Protestant Reformation
had no trouble with it,
leaving Roman Catholic theologians alone
responsible for the structure
of Modern Christianity,
even that of the Pentecostals
and Evangelicals.

To reclaim the banner of True Religion,
we will have to throw away
everything that is false,
and start over with the right kind
of emptiness, stillness and silence,
balance and harmony,
original nature (which is not sinful in the least)
and innate virtues/attributes,
integrity,
sincerity
and spontaneity,
borrowing heavily from Classic Taoism,
Native American/Indigenous Peoples' spirituality,
Celtic spirituality,
and Japan's Shinto spirituality
to create religion without theology,
based on our personal/corporate experience of life--
and bringing ourselves back to life
after all these years.

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Attraction has its own reason
for being.

There are no reasons 
to be attracted to this,
not that.

It isn't a rational/logical/intellectual
operation.

We do not control
what attracts/repels us.

We know it
without knowing how
we know it.

We will never
get to the bottom of it,
or of anything else
that matters.

Why does what matters to us
matter?

Why does "Why?" matter?

It is enough to know "What?"!

And to let it be 
because it is.

And to honor it with filial devotion
and liege loyalty.

To love what we love
and let that be.

Without having (or trying) to
defend/explain/justify/excuse
anything about it.

Understanding why we love what we love
is of no use to anyone.

"We are just that way!"

Love it the way it needs to be loved,
and smile
(Without having to know
where smiles come from!).

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It settles down
after a while
to just meeting the day
on the day's terms.

To nothing being more important
that doing what needs to be done,
when it needs to be done,
where it needs to be done,
how it needs to be done,
as long as it needs to be done.

No more ambition, incentive, aspiration,
is required than that.

Being natural,
living naturally,
from the heart
with our heart in
everything we do.

Just being ourselves,
allowing everything to arise "of itself."
Spontaneously following the impulse
of our soul/spirit/psyche
in/through each situation as it develops.

"Eating when hungry,
resting when tired,"
doing the day's work
each day,
and letting that be that.

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Everyone needs help
finding their life
and living it.

Finding the way
to living their life.

Some guidance.
Some direction.
Some encouragement.
Some support.
Some purpose.

Who are we?
How did we get here?
Why are we here?
What are we supposed to be doing
with the time left for living?
What is life for?

We are lost and alone
without a support system
to take us under their care
and listen us along the way.

Listening is the key.
Too many of our support systems
take it to be their place
to tell us what to do,
just as their support systems
told them what to do.

Support systems need to be trained
to do their job.
But who will do the training?
No one knows what is going on.
And one person's opinion
is no better than another's.

But, listening to one another
opens us to the adventure 
of being alive,
and guides us through all of the
transition points
by enabling us to listen to ourselves.

And when we listen to ourselves,
we are listening to the experience
of the species,
and more than the species,
of life itself.

Native Americans
and all indigenous peoples
know the importance of listening
to life in all forms of life.

Life is speaking to us all of the time.
Who is listening to what life has to say?

We listen by opening ourselves
to the emptiness, stillness and silence,
being present with what is present with us there,
and waiting for what arises/emerges/appears
to meet us.

Engaging it by listening,
wondering,
experiencing,
reflecting,
realizing,
following,
aligning,
being,
becoming,
feeling,
sensing,
knowing what we know
and how much we don't know.

The emptiness/stillness/silence
creates within us
"the condition of receptivity,"
enabling us to be attuned to,
aligned with,
that which knows what's what
and how to live in response
in each situation as it arises,
knowing beyond knowledge,
beyond understanding,
beyond being able to explain
what we know and how we know it,
but responding as dancers to the dance,
to the music,
to the moment,
in doing what needs to be done,
spontaneously,
in accord with time and place,
time after time.

All because we know how to listen.
To ourselves,
to the species,
to all of life.

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Having what we want
when we want it
the way we want it
for as long as we want it
is out of the question.

This realization,
when accepted and implemented,
is called "growing up."

It implies changing our mind
about what is important.

This kind of growing up
transforms our relationship
with our world
and transforms our world.

If we want to change the world,
we only have to grow up.

Again and again.

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