Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Trumpeter Swans on Swan Lake — Swan Lake Iris Gardens, Sumter, South Carolina
Tranquil scenes allow us to sink into the moment, absorbing the rightness of here/now, and participating in the universal recognition of the importance of being present with what is present with us for the experience of oneness with all of the cosmos-- like seeing the wonder of the ocean in one drop of water, or one grain of sand.
Presence is the wonder itself. "The ability to be with anything within our field of awareness," is the way Ann Weiser Cornell thinks of Presence.
Present with, accepting of, all there is, as it is, right here, right now, always and forever.
Why not?
"If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to (us) as it is, Infinite" (William Blake).
We participate in the act of "cleansing the doors of perception" by stopping to see the moment and being present with everything within or field of awareness."
Or, allowing ourselves to be stopped by the moment, as with this one.
West Prong Bridge — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, The Chimney’s Picnic Area, Gatlinburg, Tennessee
Hitler captivated his audiances and talked them into seeing the way he saw things. He had a "hypnotic personality." "Strong, forceful personalities" can be that way.
Politicians and evangelical preachers and "snake oil" salesmen thrive on having "the gift."
The rest of us would do well to spend our time away from their influence, and happy to be at home in emptiness, stillness and silence.
We are born with an original nature, intrinsic virtues/virtuosities (The things we do best and love to do most), and an inherent intuition, which is a built-in sense of direction, intuiting "Yes and No" from birth.
And, we would do well to develop our relationship with these things, learning to know what we know and how to trust our own innate sense of who we are and what we need to do and to leave undone.
However, the inner signals can be jammed by powerful personalities, and by parents who force their authority upon us and "training us in the way they think we should go" from birth.
We meet a lot of resistance in our work to be who we are, and have to be resilient and determined to follow our own heart and live to be who we are, no matter what.
Glade Creek Mill 00 — Babcock State Park, Danese, West Virginia
Listening to ourselves, hearing what is going on within, knowing how we are being impacted by the circumstances of our life, and responding to that with a level of empathy and compassion appropriate for the situation as a whole, would be an important step toward balance and harmony, and a partnership with ourselves based on mutual respect and encouragement for the effort of meeting life as it comes day to day.
We don't get enough help, we don't have good-enough choices, and we don't know where to turn too much of the time.
Yet, we can always Buddy-up with ourselves in a "Here we are, now what?" kind of way whenever we need a hand with attitude adjustment and squaring ourselves up with how things are.
Our best invisible friend is always right here with a wink and a smile when the times call for such, and it would be wrong to not look them up!
The missing piece was D.T. Suzuki's statement that Zen considered "enlightenment" to be equivalent to "habitual intuition."
Listening to ourselves and being right about what we are saying/hearing!
Enlightenment is INTUITION!!!
So is living faithfully-- faithfully aligned with what we know to be true!
And, it is the same thing as living in sync with the Tao-- living in accord with what we know to be so!
This has to be the cornerstone in the new edition of "The Church of What's Happening Now"! Flip Wilson did not realize the splendid nature of the truth of the phrase he coined. But he knew what he was talking about.
"Come to me all who are weak and heavy-laden and I will show you how to find what you need to do what needs you to do it and what needs to be done in each situation as it arises: LISTEN TO YOURSELVES!!! TO YOUR OWN INTUITION!!!
This is the church of the future. Just waiting to be CHRISTened and put out to sea. Given to us from Zen, which is the Taoist version of Buddhism, and the New Christianity!
Adams Mill Pond 21 B — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina
We are each "built" differently. The truer we are to who we are "built" to be, the truer we exhibit/serve our "original nature" and the intrinsic virtues/virtuosities (The things we do best and enjoy doing most), and are at the service of our "habitual intuition," the better our quality of life and the more centered/grounded/focused we are.
Getting us together with who we are is establishing and maintaining a relationship of mindful awareness with ourselves, with a clear and abiding sense of who we are and who we are not, what is "us" and what is "not us," what is ours to do and what we have no business doing.
Getting ourselves together with the life that is our life to live in the time left for living needs to be the primary orientation of our life throughout our years upon the earth.
So, what is the fascination with sex, drugs, alcohol, money, power and control?
Schwabacher Sunrise — Grand Teton National Park, Jackson, Wyoming
Most of us don't have the Tetons in our backyard, but they call to us all the way from Wyoming, reminding us of what is missing in our life and inviting us to seek out even faint facsimiles in the parks and greenways where we live, opening ourselves to what is open to us, offering peace and silence where it may be found, and reuniting with sacred space linking us with more than meets the eye, and speaking to us in spiritual/soulful ways.
Without retreats and oasis's we are at the mercy of the noise and complexity of our lives, and we owe it to ourselves to offset that however we might be able.
Peach Leaves — Springs Farms Orchard, Fort Mill, South Carolina
The idea is to develop an in-depth relationship with our intuition, learn to check everything out with our body's felt sense, and live mindfully present with the here/now all the way along the way.
How far are we from being able to do that?
That's how far we are from being able to live as indigenous people live, trusting themselves to themselves, living their life as their life needs to be lived.
Adams Mill Pond 24 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina
Maintaining our balance and harmony is remaining square-up with our life. Aware of the forces of destabilization and rolling with the rhythm of the waves on the wine-dark sea.
I laugh as I write that because it sounds as though it can be done.
The fact of the matter is that we are swept away again and again by things like being out of coffee or losing electricity for a day.
The people in Gaza or Ukraine would love to have what we can't stand. No worse that what we can't stand would be my hope for the entire cosmos.
But the coastal areas of the southern states are facing a hurricane season for the record book with higher seas than anything ever experienced there.
Going to be dicey.
The next generation or so is going to have plenty of practice dealing with things they don't want to deal with.
Moving out now might help, but where to go with a guarantee of smooth and easy is not a smooth or easy call to make.
The future is coming and it's a bear.
It is a good idea to take our attitude in for an adjustment now-- if we can get an appointment.
If not, we will have to settle for making do with what we do not want-- with a life civilization was supposed to keep away.
Well. "Here we are, now what?" Isn't bad for a mantra. And it is for sure that we will all be amazed at what we have within we never knew existed.
We come from good stock. Our ancestors all dealt with things worse than the worst inconveniences we are likely to face.
I'm betting on us making the adjustments and being just fine. Particularly if we remember to laugh a lot.
Four-mile Creek 01 05-03-2024 — Four-Mile Creek Greenway, Charlotte, North Carolina
Where do you find what is helpful? Where do you find what you need to help you along life's way?
You are here, and that leads me to suppose you find this "place" to be helpful-- unless this is your first visit and we will have to wait to see how helpful you think it is.
I hope it is helpful-- I fully intend it to be so, offering, as I do, what is helpful to me, both in offering it, and in contemplating what it means to be helpful as a part of "a well-considered life," which is, I take it, the only kind of life worth out time.
And knowing what is helpful and where to find it, and returning there often, certainly has its place in a well-considered life!
Goodale Mirror — Adams Mill Pond, Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina
I observe the 1 year old Great Granddaughter at lunch in local restaurants twice a week. She is incredibly attentive and curious, looking intently at everything and everyone, lifting the table cloth to see what is underneath, trying everything that is offered to her to eat, and reaching a hand into her mouth to retrieve and hurl to the floor anything that doesn't meet her idea of tasty.
That is who she is. We are all who we are. From the womb!
No one comes into the world as an empty slate! No one needs to be "taught" who/how to be!
The Montessori approach regarding assisting the coming forth of what is there instead of trying to force into being that which truly ought not be, is so to be preferred over what has long passed for "training the child in the way they should to"-- as though we know what that is!
Let them take the lead! They come into the world knowing more about who they are and how they are built to be than we know about them.
Keep them safe and let them live their life! And allow ourselves to live OUR life, while we are at it!
Sea Oats at Sunset — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, North Carolina
Neil Postman and Charles Weingartner wrote Teaching As A Subversive Activity, but it could have been entitled, "Living As A Subversive Activity," because it is up to all of us to "subvert attitudes, beliefs and assumptions that foster chaos and uselessness" (Their words in their book).
They say, "(Students) are almost never required to make observations, formulate definitions, or perform any intellectual operations that go beyond repeating what someone else says is true."
That is everywhere we go. The "church," for instance, is grounded on "what someone else says is true."
They say, "Knowledge is produced in response to questions. And new knowledge results from the asking of new questions, quite often new questions about old questions."
They say, Once you have learned how to ask questions-- relevant and appropriate and substantial questions-- you have learned how to learn, and no one can keep you from learning what you need to know."
And, "The most important intellectual ability we have yet developed--the art and science of asking questions--is not taught in school!"
And, "What's worth knowing?" More than how to find out what you need to know when you need to know it?
And, "The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge."
Where are questions encouraged in your life, particularly the right kind of questions? The kind of questions that question the validity of "final answers" across the board?
How many questions do you ask in a day? Particularly questions like, "Who says so?" "How do they know?" "What is it good for?" "What/how does that help us do that needs to be done?"
The more questions we ask-- and the better our questions become-- the better our life gets, and the better our future becomes.
Start every day with, "What makes you think so?" And see where it goes.