Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
The Middle Way is preferred
by all of the spiritual systems
I know about.
The lesson of the Greek myth
about Daedalus and Icarus is,
"Don't let your inflations
get you down!"
Balancing our highs and lows
is the true work of ego
in minding the emotional flow
and keeping it within
the normal and customary range
for reactions to the events
of our life.
Balance and harmony
is the true aim of life
according to the old Taoist sages,
and working to keep Yin and Yang
in sync
maintains the pace and flow of each day.
Regular times during the day
for emotional check-ins
helps with being conscious
of the state of our being,
and puts us in charge
of regulating our response
to the circumstances as they change
throughout each day.
Reducing noise,
complexity
and drama,
and increasing time spent
with emptiness,
stillness
and silence,
help to maintain our relationship
with the AUM of life
from situation to situation,
and positions us to be able
to respond appropriately
to rising to the occasion,
one after another.
Crabtree Falls 02 05/21/2013 Oil Paint Rendered — Blue Ridge Parkway, Little Switzerland, North Carolina
Fascist-Republicans are desperate
for fast solutions
that do not exist.
They want to believe that walls,
and guns,
and getting everyone to be just like they are
will make them safe.
They are fanatically insecure,
afraid of every future
that is not exactly like
the past which was 1950 wonderful
to their way of thinking.
To their way of thinking,
it all started with Social Security,
welfare and entitlement programs,
and they have been spoon fed
by the Fascist-Republican leadership
to not dare ask
how farm subsidies,
corporate bailouts,
tax-cuts
and incentives
are different from
welfare and entitlement programs.
Let's start calling tax-cuts socialism,
farm subsidies welfare,
and corporate bailouts entitlement programs.
The Fascist-Repubilican Machine
has long been equating infrastructure, health,
child-care, housing, the WPA/New Deal
expenditures and programs
as socialism and support
for the enemies of democracy,
when opposing such expenditures and programs
is the real enemy of democracy.
Deflecting the light from their work
to destroy democracy
and creating false enemies of the people
to blame for all of the ails and fears of the people
is the art and shame of the Fascist-Republican Machine,
and it has created a terrified foundation
of followers who are fundamentally insecure
and certain they are in constant danger.
The Fascist-Republican leadership
hoses down their base
with daily reminders
of all they have to fear
("They will take away your guns
and your stoves!"),
and keeps the beat going to the tune
of making everyone The Enemy but themselves
in an "Only WE can save you!" kind of way.
The steady repetition of that theme
has created a large swath of the population
of the world
that is "a nervous wreck"
and on the verge of "a complete emotional breakdown,"
from having to be on guard and at the ready
to fight for their lives on every front,
so we have the Mississippi legislature
banning Sesame Street,
and efforts to ban books across the country
because they pose threats to the existence
of all things good.
Keeping the people boiling
keeps them from thinking,
from connecting the dots,
from adding 2+2 and getting 4,
from seeing what's what
and what is going on,
and asking the questions
that beg to be asked,
and saying the truth
that cries out to be said.
And how this all plays out
remains to be seen.
In the meantime, the rest of us
have to keep doing what needs to be done,
saying what needs to be said,
asking what needs to be asked,
and understanding that we are dealing
with fear and hatred which has no rational/logical base,
and that (In the phrase from the 60's)
"Reason cannot uproot what reason did not plant."
Storm Clouds at Bath Creek 10/14/2013 Oil Paint Rendered — Bath, North Carolina
We are missing authenticity.
We can't be authentic
and play the game
of not playing the game.
The game of having our way
and striving to get it.
It is a game of 10,000 moves,
and much more intricate
than three dimensional chess.
It is played against everyone
in our field of action,
and each of them is playing it
against everyone in their field of action,
and we all swear we are not playing a game.
We are missing authenticity.
The authenticity of a Ponderosa Pine, say.
Or, everything in the world of nature, say.
Everything there is just what it is,
"As one thus come,"
and nothing is pretending to be something else.
Wolves in sheep's clothing
are not to be found
among actual wolves.
We cannot be authentic
and hide from our motives,
or from ourselves.
The joke here is on us--
how can we hide from ourselves?
That is the deepest kind of denial!
The kind that doesn't know itself
what it is doing.
And it happens all of the time.
Did someone say,
"Emptiness! Stillness! Silence!"?
Amazing!
I was just thinking that!
Emptiness, stillness and silence
are the way to authenticity.
We cannot kid ourselves
and tune into emptiness, stillness and silence.
We kid ourselves best
when we are into drugs and alcohol.
Emptiness, stillness and silence
don't stand a chance
against drugs and alcohol.
And authenticity doesn't depend on them
to get through the day.
No wonder that it is the one thing
most often missing from our life.
Sunrise at Thunder Hill Overlook 01/11/2012 Oil Paint Rendered — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina
Our life is changing as we watch.
Hold it close,
let it go.
Getting from our life
all it has to offer
in between.
Where have we held back
from our life?
Refused to go where it
was taking us?
Not looking at
what it had to show us?
Trying to give us
what we would not have?
Where are we being obstinate?
Refusing to go?
Not looking?
Not having?
We are to look at this life
as the only on we are going to have,
as though it is unique to us,
and we to it.
This is our chance to see
what is to be seen,
to do what is to be done,
to experience what is to be experienced,
to know what there is to know,
to take what it has to offer,
drawing lines where they need
to be drawn,
and being who we are
as opposed to who
we have no business being.
Who is that?
Have we lived well-enough to know?
We have the time left for living
to be sure.
Why hold anything back?
Changing the way we respond to things
and think about things,
would improve our life
on a lot of levels.
Thinking differently alleviates
much of what ails us.
How would you go about thinking differently?
There is the what and the how.
We could change what we think about,
or we could change how we think about
what we think about.
I hardly ever think about chronic diseases
of India elephants,
and could research the topic
on the internet,
interview experts,
buy an elephant
and keep it in the back yard
under close observation.
Dealing with the neighbors
would give me a lot of new things
to think about.
And finding elephant-sized
doggie bags.
Our response pattern
sets us up for
the life pattern
that defines/expresses
who we are.
When we change/vary
the way we respond,
we change/vary ourselves
and create a new identity
for ourselves
just by responding differently
to the things that happen
in our life.
That would make all things new.
Congaree Panorama 11/07/2016 Oil Paint Rendered — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina
The Guardians and Guides
must be recognized,
honored
and trusted
without being assumed
and taken for granted.
We all "get by
with a little help
from our friends,"
our friends being
the invisible forces/hands
at work in our life,
leading,
directing,
protecting,
defending
us against the forces
of greed and ignorance
that would lead us astray
as they did with Adam and Eve
in the mythical Garden of Eden.
We live between Eden and Gethsemane,
in the Wasteland of our discontent.
Finding the way that is The Way
is a matter of luck and perseverance,
sticking to it
when it looks to all the world
to be nothing more than the wind
that blows where it will.
We do it by enjoying the wonder
of the adventure,
and the thrill of the surprises
and turns
that accompany us through the waiting
and wondering
to the amazement of laughter
and delight
at the wonder of waiting and wondering
breaking in to encourage us
in the work of being human
between the worlds of reason
and the revered.
November Orchard 11/06/2015 Oil Paint Rendered — Springs Farms, York County, South Carolina
We have opinions that shut us off
from our life.
We do not live objectively,
open-mindedly,
mindfully aware of what is going on
within us and around us.
We are blind to the realities
in control of what we do
and do not.
Our nighttime dreams
try to get through to us.
Our slips of the tongue.
Our selective "forgetting"
things that reflect our ambivalence about,
or opposition to,
things we say we "love."
Contradictions that live within us
unnoticed/unnamed
determine choices we make
not-knowing why we make them.
We think we mean one thing
while doing another,
and do not know
who is "running the show."
Integrity/sincerity/spontaneity
require that we commune with ourselves
in an on-going and regular way,
so that we know what we know
and are clear about who we are
and how things are with us
on all levels
all of the time.
We do not kid ourselves,
fool ourselves,
deceive ourselves,
lie to ourselves,
tell ourselves what we want to hear--
but live as one with ourselves,
within and without.
Anything less than mindful oneness
will not do.
Listening to our dreams
and conducting routine hearing/listening sessions
with ourselves
regarding where we stand with all
that is at issue in our life,
are essential to a life well-lived,
in balance and harmony with ourselves
and our circumstances.
Knowing our own mind
is essential knowing.
We get there by hearing/listening
to ourselves.
Ducks at Scott Creek Oil Paint Rendered — Edisto Beach State Park, South Carolina
Everything I write is a George Carlin routine.
When you get to the end of your rope,
you have to change your mind
about what is important.
It's all about being right
about what's important.
All of our problems
stem from being wrong
about what's important.
We will know when we are wrong
about what's important
when our life brings us problems,
one after another,
and we turn to drugs/sex/alcohol/money
to relieve ourselves
of the exhaustion of existence.
Our life is here to wake us up.
To get us back on track,
in the service of what's important.
If we have problems
and are creating more problems
by the way we are dealing with
our problems,
we are in the grip
of the wrong things being important.
We have to sit down,
be quiet, still and empty,
and take stock,
see what we are doing
and change our mind about what's important.
When we finally figure it out,
and are right at last about what is important,
our life will smile,
everything will fall into place,
and be right with the world,
and we will be singin' and dancin' in the rain,
and the sunshine,
because nothing matters more
than being right about what's important
and living as though it is.
Dogwood 04/06/2018 08 Oil Paint Rendered — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina
The First Noble Truth of Buddhism is
"All life is suffering."
I say, "Stop right there!
Suffering is a frame of mind!
A way of seeing!
A way of evaluating what you are looking at!
An opinion!
"All life is an opinion!
The way to be free of suffering
is to change your mind
about what is important!
"The Eight-Fold Path
is nothing more than eight steps
to changing your mind
about what is important--
with 'Right Seeing' being the first one!"
Right seeing is seeing our seeing,
evaluating our evaluation,
having the Right Opinion
about all of our opinions
and maintaining Right Perspective
all along The Way.
We can come at this from a different perspective:
"It's all useless, hopeless, pointless,
futile and absurd--
and coming to a very bad end!
Everything DIES!
So why try?
Who cares?
What difference does anything make?
Nothing matters!"
To which comes the retort:
"You say, 'Nothing matters,'
in a way that suggests
it matters that nothing matters.
You are the very evidence you need
to change your opinion/perspective/point of view
about nothing mattering.
If it matters that nothing matters,
check out your breathing.
That is probably a second thing that matters.
And, before long, you will have a room full
of things that matter,
'Eating when hungry,
resting when tired,'
for example.
"So stop it!
Don't give me 'Nothing matters!'!
Change your mind,
your perspective,
your point of view
about how things are
and what can be done about them,
and turn the light around!"
Everything comes down to
turning the light around.
Absurdity.
Some people look at absurdity
and conclude that there is no reason
to go on.
Other people look at absurdity
and laugh,
and keep going.
Turning the light around on
"So what, who cares, why try, nothing matters,"
by asking of it,
"So what if no one cares,
if no one tries,
if nothing matters?
Let that not interfere with
the things that matter:
Cinnamon rolls fresh from the oven.
Chocolate shakes,
hot showers,
good company,
puppies and kittens and children's laughter...
The list is long,
so stand up!
Step into what needs you to do it,
and allow your life
to carry you into the next thing
that needs you to do it,
all the way to the last thing,
laughing and loving all that is to be loved,
enjoying all that is to be enjoyed,
seeing with right seeing
evaluating with right evaluation,
opining with right opinions, etc.,
all along The Way!
Chinese Characters Quoting Lao Tzu — From My Symbols of Transformation Album on Flickr
All this striving to get,
to have,
to do,
to be!
There is nothing like it anywhere
in the world of nature.
We want things we have no business having.
That makes us like the dragons of lore,
collecting and hording treasures
of gold and silver,
diamonds and pearls,
sapphire and jade...
Things they have absolutely no use for,
guarding it fiercely,
adding more.
Dragons are not natural beasts.
We reject the natural world
and assert our rights
to have what we want
no matter what.
We are living our way into the reality
of what that means.
Endeavoring to have what we want
is killing us
and destroying the planet.
We believe the God of the Machine
will deliver us in the end,
and heaven will be where all our dreams come true.
Grown up, immature people believe this.
"Live like you want to and get it all when you die!"
This is the religion of the masses in 2023.
Don't take their Kodachrome away.
All this striving to get,
to have,
to do,
to be!
There is nothing like it anywhere
in the world of nature.
We want things we have no business having.
That makes us like the dragons of lore,
collecting and hording treasures
of gold and silver,
diamonds and pearls,
sapphire and jade...
Things they have absolutely no use for,
guarding it fiercely,
adding more.
Dragons are not natural beasts.
We reject the natural world
and assert our rights
to have what we want
no matter what.
We are living our way into the reality
of what that means.
Endeavoring to have what we want
is killing us
and destroying the planet.
We believe the God of the Machine
will deliver us in the end,
and heaven will be where all our dreams come true.
Grown up, immature people believe this.
"Live like you want to and get it all when you die!"
This is the religion of the masses in 2023.
Don't take their Kodachrome away.
It is all they have.
Bethany Church Cemetery 07 12/13/2015 B&W Oil Paint Rendered — Bethany ARPC, Clover, South Carolina
The two guides for the way
that cannot be discerned as the way
by any rational way of discernment
are affinity and resonation.
If you have an affinity for something,
if something resonates with you,
go that way.
If it is all chest tightening,
stomach churning,
mouth drying,
and/or neck bristling,
and if our heart is not in it,
do not go that way.
Joseph Campbell said,
"We know when we are on the path
and when we are off it."
We feel it in our bones,
in our stomach,
in our chests,
mouth,
neck,
heart
and dreams.
We are overcome
by the night sweats
and the dry (or not so dry) heaves.
The signs are palpable, visceral.
We know when to say yes and when to say no--
we only have to know what we know,
and trust ourselves to it,
even though we cannot defend,
explain,
justify,
excuse our actions.
Defending,
explaining,
justifying,
excusing our actions
belong to the world of reasons,
rationality,
logic,
analytics--
and have no association
with the world of instinct,
intuition,
dowsing,
hunches,
and knowing that knows not how it knows.
We live in this world
grounded in that world.
Led by inaudible signals,
upheld by invisible hands.
It is a matter of opinion
all the way down.
Everything reflects opinion.
Everything runs on opinion.
War is the final solution
regarding whose opinion rules
(And, since opinion never goes away,
war never ends).
All religion everywhere throughout time
is founded on opinion.
One person's faith is that person's opinion
of what ought to be believed
and done,
and why.
Religions have been at war with each other--
in one way or another--
for as long as there have been people.
People are the bane of existence,
and religion is the bane of people.
If we could just have our opinion in the matter
about every matter,
without trying to force our opinion
onto others...
We all have an opinion about what constitutes
a perfect lemon icebox pie,
a consummate Bordeaux,
a real human being...
Philosophies and theologies
also revolve around
someone's opinion about real human beings,
about how we ought to be.
The test of our opinion
regarding a real human being
comes down to how well
we apply/exhibit/exemplify that
in our own life.
How close to our ideal person
does our life personify over time?
How objective/conscious/aware
are we in evaluating our own life?
How truthfully do we live?
How is integrity,
sincerity,
spontaneity
expressed in our life
in each situation as it arises?
How often, for how long,
do we become who having our way now
requires us to be?
Our opinions revolve around
what is in it for us,
and what we stand to gain or lose
by how we see what we look at
and how we want things to be.
In that way,
we are all
"like the wind
that blows where it will."
A little consistency and constancy
would go a long way
toward balance and harmony.