Author Archives: jimwdollar

You have to do you the way you would do you given all you know about you and your current circumstances. What do you have to offer out of your original nature and your innate virtues/characteristics? Your specialties and perspective? What does the situation call for? What does it need from you that you canContinue reading “September 07, 2023 – A”

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I was born into seriousness and have swum around it it all my life. It is the whole trouble with everything. People take things so seriously. Paul Watzlawick wrote a book entitled, “The Situation Is Hopeless But Not Serious,” which captures things quite nicely. Comedians are bad about taking things too seriously. Walking around inContinue reading “September 06, 2023 – B”

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I come from people who were not true to themselves. Who lived out their lifetimes being who someone else thought they ought to be. I learned from their mistakes, and drew my own lines, but not early enough. There were severe penalties for attempting to draw lines too early. I came to know that lifeContinue reading “September 06, 2023 – A”

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Nature does its thing as long as it can, and then when a species or two runs out of living room, and is no longer able to meet the cost of living, nature comes up with other players and goes on with the game– even when that means abandoning entire solar systems. Life plays outContinue reading “September 05, 2023 – A”

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What’s important? What’s happening? What’s called for? Answering these three questions correctly in each situation as it arises is all we ever need to do. Why is that so difficult? –0–

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We find our own way, taking our cues from the way life requires to be lived, playing the “Is this me or not me?” game from one choice to the next. Forced choices are not choices at all, just places where we don’t get to choose what we do about what’s happening. What to doContinue reading “September 03, 2023 – A”

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William Wordsworth nailed it with his, “The world is too much with us late and soon…” and its lament regarding our lost connection with nature and nature’s way of getting things done. “We have lost the magic,” he would say, or better perhaps, “We have traded the magic for thirty pieces of silver, or itsContinue reading “September 02, 2023 -B”

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Reading the situation as it arises without our own wants and desires, fear and anxiety getting in the way, and responding appropriately to the occasion, time after time, is all there is to it. That’s all Jesus and the Buddha, etc. ever did. Reduced to its essence, we get: See-Do. Expanded a bit it becomes:Continue reading “September 02, 2023 -A”

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Nothing is more important than finding and living aligned with the flow of our life– which means finding and living the life that is our life to live, finding and doing our thing within the circumstances of our life. My thing is hermenutics, getting to the bottom of it all, beginning with this moment, hereContinue reading “September 01, 2023 – B”

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My business is being empty, still and quiet. Being busy being empty, still and quiet. It helps to have an environment that supports emptiness, stillness, and silence. Try finding one of those on your next day off! It’s noise everywhere we go– wherever people are, noise is. Except for Quaker Meeting Houses. Even there, itContinue reading “September 01, 2023 – A”

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Sit down, be quiet, and watch what occurs to you without being engaged by it. Notice the things that keep coming up with a particular urgency about them and tend to those things. Allow yourself to respond to the urgent matters and to take care of the routine affairs of the day in their ownContinue reading “September, 2023”

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Our luck improves when we stop pushing it, and simply attend what needs our attention, doing what is called for in each situation as it arises, and relaxing into trusting our luck to be what it needs to be when we allow things to go the way they need to go. Pushing, shoving, forcing, striving,Continue reading “Fall Months, 2023”

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