March 07-C, 2026

Dog on a Fall Day — Rural North Carolina

We do not need anyone’s permission to be who we are. Our primal allegiance is to ourselves. To be true to ourselves is our ultimate obligation. That means living in devoted service to our intuition–to our sense of what is right for us to do, for whom it is right for us to be–above all other concerns or duties. To deny ourselves is the ultimate betrayal. Thus, our call from birth to death is to be who we are, doing what is ours to do. And our next obligation in line is to help/assist others in being true to themselves, by living in ways that serve and express who they are and doing what is theirs to do.

May we spend what remains of the time left for living in devoted service to these sacred imperatives to the best of our ability in commitment to ourselves and to each other. Amen! May it be so!

Published by jimwdollar

I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing. I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.

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