July 20, 2025

Sunset at Silver Lake 2018 Mirror — Ocracoke Island, Cape Hatteras National Seashore, North Carolina
Allowing things to play out according to their own drift and flow, while applying a light touch to influence direction and reduce impact, is the age-old secret of parenthood, as demonstrated in the black-and-white television classic, "Father Knows Best," and suggested in the first edition of the Tao Te Ching, on page after page.

Taking a disinterested interest in the outcome time after time produces a better outcome than "pushing the river" and insisting on My Way Now!

Published by jimwdollar

I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing. I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.

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