May 22, 2025

A Fall Day 03 11/10/2010 — The Bog Garden, Greensboro, North Carolina
I miss the Bog Garden. 
I lived about a mile away
for about 13 years,
and moved away in 2013.
And don't need to go back.

I'm funny that way.
That was then, this is now.
I don't go back.
One of my favorite idiosyncrasies.
Which I do not understand,
but I recognize and honor
as a "Me Thing."
It is Who I Am.

There are things I do
and things I don't do.
Things I am,
and things I am not.

I know where my lines lie.
That is one of the things
I like best about me.
Knowing where I stop and start.

Don't try to get me to change
the oil in your car,
or to go horseback riding with you,
or go dancing with you.
Or swimming.
The list is long.

I enjoy sitting looking out the window.
And asking questions.
And walking around,
looking for what catches my eye.
I have an abundance of curiosity.
And patience.

My favorite thing is to sit
in emptiness/stillness/silence
awash in the things that arise within.

Published by jimwdollar

I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing. I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.

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