Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Linville River 07/13/2018 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Linville Falls, North Carolina
We carry around with us the assumption of permanence, as though things will be what they are forever unchanged.
It comforts us, steadies us, reassures us to be able to assume the ongoingness of what appears to be reliably there.
The Linville River has flowed for thousands of years, and is probably safe for thousands more. And the fact that "we can't step into the same river twice, doesn't bother us. This scene will be fundamentally unchanged throughout our life time. Barring earthquakes, forest fires, another hurricane matching Helene which rearranged mountain sides and rivers a hundred miles or so to the north.
Being capable of recovering our balance and harmony, of regaining and maintaining our foundation and orientation when change takes everything away is a test of our resiliency and our constitution.
How do we practice letting go? Enter the silence by letting go of thoughts, feelings, emotions, desires... Empty yourself of everything and sit in the stillness and silence... This is what nothing feels like. Adapt to the experience and seek out in the silence your original nature, your innate virtues (The things you do best, and enjoy doing most), your inherent imagination, your intrinsic intuition. And may they be with you always throughout the time left for living-- because with them, we have what we need to find what we need, to live on, live on.
I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing.
I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.
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