Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Where do you find you solace? What comforts you in your old age? What is your consolation? Where do you go for peace and serenity?
"Rocking my soul in The bosom of Abraham" just doesn't do it for me.
The Buddhists seem to take comfort in "peaceful abiding, here, now," which would be fine if it weren't for the high level of denial required to ignore the injustices, anguish and agony found in the sources of pain and suffering in everyday life.
Peaceful abiding is denial full bore. Merely another addiction to go with Drugs, Alcohol, Sex and Money to take our mind off the heavy doses of reality that jolt our world throughout each day.
Solace and consolation are hard to come by. Writing keeps me afloat, and slow strolls through the natural world, weather permitting, "Where the Wild Things Are."
Having lunch in our favorite food outlet, with our children, grandchildren and great grandchildren is another balancing place helping to maintain flow and harmony.
Emptiness, stillness and silence remain the adamantine foundation for facing what is to be faced day in and day out.
I trust that you have found what it takes to take what comes in a regular way. Solace and comfort are crucial, and we must return to their consolations repeatedly in order to remain upright through time.
I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing.
I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.
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