Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Yellow Swallowtail Butterfly — The Bog Garden, Greensboro, North Carolina
Projection and denial are two of the psychological defense mechanisms that are most responsible for things being as they are.
It is a solid irony. Things are as they are because projection and denial prevent us from seeing things as they are.
If we knew what's what without projecting onto it what we fear and what we wish, what we dread and what we desire, we would be much better positioned to deal with what faces us and do about it what needs to be done about it.
Or maybe not.
"What needs to be done about it" depends upon our orientation and intentions.
There is "What needs to be done about it" from the standpoint of the situation as a whole.
And there is "What needs to be done about it" from the standpoint of our self-interest, ambition, desire, fear, dread and what it means for us personally.
If we look at the world selfishly, in terms of our perceived best interest, we strive for a certain outcome.
If we look at the world from the standpoint of benevolence, compassion and good will, we strive for a different outcome.
What do we have at stake in what we face? What do we stand to gain and lose? And what part do projection and denial play in our thinking about what we stand to gain and lose?
The people killing democracy in this country and in the world know what they want and are willing to do whatever it takes to get it.
And they aren't willing to do anything to make the world a better place for all people to live. The part projection and denial play in them being the way they are likely aren't as great as utter selfishness and willful indifference to the needs of others.
I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing.
I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.
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