Finding our way to The Way one situation at a time. I don't know how great it will be, but I expect it will be interesting, and I look forward to it going on past all reason because wonder is just that way. Are you coming or not?
Low Tide on Johnson Creek — St. Helena Island, South Carolina
All we need is a sounding board. We all need a sounding board. Someone who can hear what we have to say and encourage us to keep talking until WE hear what we have to say.
When WE hear what we have to say, it changes everything.
So. We can write it out, as I do here, to you who are serving as my sounding board. I am writing as though you are listening, and you can do the same thing to imaginary sounding boards, just saying what you have to say, several times a day, clarifying it as the day wears on, so that you are clear yourself as to what you are saying, and are able to reflect on that until you come to new realizations which produce a shift in attitude and orientation resulting in mid-course corrections and adjustments creating mild to dramatic differences in the way you live just because you took the time to hear what you have to say, in a regular and reliable way throughout each day.
I listen to myself at night, ranting and writhing at terrifying possibilities and threatening turns in the road, saying only, "I wonder what I will do about that," and "I wonder how I will handle that," and "What will ever come of that," and by morning everything is all clarified and I am ready to do what is called for in each situation as it arises, having prepared myself for the absolute worse throughout the night.
Makes the day a breeze, getting it all said at night.
I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing.
I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.
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