August 18, 2023 – A

Day Lily Oil Paint Rendered — Indian Land, South Carolina
We should be like ourselves,
caring what we care about,
loving what we love,
enjoying what we enjoy,
doing what needs to be done
the way only we can know and do that.

That's the way real people do it.
They are themselves
doing it the way they would do it.

In order to be that way,
we have to spend time with ourselves,
attending ourselves,
being attentive to ourselves,
knowing what we know,
seeing how we see what we look at,
feeling what we feel,
reflecting on our experience
and on our experiencing our experience,
and being comfortable
with who we know ourselves to be.

How much time do you spend with yourself?
Listening to yourself?
Knowing what you know?
Feeling what you feel?
Seeing how you see?

Without judgment or condemnation?
Just being at one with yourself?
Knowing what needs to be done 
and doing it the way you would do it?

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Published by jimwdollar

I'm retired, and still finding my way--but now, I don't have to pretend that I know what I'm doing. I retired after 40.5 years as a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA, serving churches in Louisiana, Mississippi and North Carolina. I graduated from Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary, in Austin, Texas, and Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. My wife, Judy, and I have three daughters, five granddaughters, one great granddaughter, and a great grandson on the way, within about ten minutes from where we live--and are enjoying our retirement as much as we have ever enjoyed anything.

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