
The 13th Step of Alcoholics Anonymous is "After sobriety what?" After sobriety is remarkably the same as Before Addiction. We couldn't handle it then, how do we handle it now? What has changed between then and now? Sobriety is about the right kind of perspective/perception. Addiction is the path to seeing appropriately. Which is to say, addiction is the path to enlightenment. To seeing what's what and what needs to be done about it in each situation as it arises-- and having the courage to do it, time after time, for the joy of doing it and the satisfaction of having done it. Period. That is the adamantine ground/core of life. If we cannot do that, we live for diversion/distraction/denial, i.e., addiction. Because life is about seeing/doing what needs to be done, when, where and how it needs to be done in all of the situations and circumstances of living. For no other reason than because it needs to be done. If we cannot/will not do that, it's addiction to something all the way. Perspective/perception is/are the key to seeing/doing what needs to be done. Enlightenment is the grounding foundation of life as it needs to be lived, which is doing what needs to be done with the right attitude, always and forever. The formula is simple: We get out of bed and step into our life and deal with what needs to be dealt with when/where/how it needs to be done, every day for the rest of our life. Which can be shortened to "Deal with it." The 13th step.
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